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Is it the word 'condescending' that you saw as a 'personal' attack?
You ask 'Do words hurt?' and have spent a lot of energy telling everyone that words do not hurt. I have given you something to consider - if you walk up to certain people and say certain words, you will get hurt. Put your theory into practice and report back.
Why would it be any different than a punch from someone without a tattoo.
Neural mechanisms
Recent research in neuroscience suggests that physical pain and psychological pain may share some underlying neurological mechanisms.[21][22][23] Brain regions that were consistently found to be implicated in both types of pain are the anterior cingulate cortex and prefrontal cortex (some subregions more than others), and may extend to other regions as well. Brain regions that were also found to be involved in psychological pain include the insular cortex, posterior cingulate cortex, thalamus, parahippocampal gyrus, basal ganglia, and cerebellum. Some advocate that, because similar brain regions are involved in both physical pain and psychological pain, we should see pain as a continuum that ranges from purely physical to purely psychological.[24] Moreover, many sources mention the fact that we use methaphors of physical pain to refer to psychological pain experiences.[7][12][25]
Originally posted by Wang Tang
It is not the responsibility of a speaker to consider the feelings of their listeners so as not to hurt them. It is the responsibility of the listener to be able to recieve words in such a manner that they are not hurt by them. This is all a matter of self-belief and self confidence; if you truly believe words can't hurt you, they can't hurt you. People have absolute freedom to say what they want, although sometimes there are consequences to what they say. You have to learn to deal with this fact... and if you can't deal with this fact you are a weak minded fool.
Originally posted by LesMisanthrope
reply to post by Brutebever
Find one example in the history of language of a word or phrase causing harm. There isn't one. Every time it is the one who hears the words doing damage to themselves.
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
reply to post by LesMisanthrope
Is it the word 'condescending' that you saw as a 'personal' attack?
You ask 'Do words hurt?' and have spent a lot of energy telling everyone that words do not hurt. I have given you something to consider - if you walk up to certain people and say certain words, you will get hurt. Put your theory into practice and report back.edit on 10-5-2013 by Itisnowagain because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Wang Tang
Originally posted by Itisnowagain
reply to post by LesMisanthrope
Is it the word 'condescending' that you saw as a 'personal' attack?
You ask 'Do words hurt?' and have spent a lot of energy telling everyone that words do not hurt. I have given you something to consider - if you walk up to certain people and say certain words, you will get hurt. Put your theory into practice and report back.edit on 10-5-2013 by Itisnowagain because: (no reason given)
I walked up to certain man and told him to punch me in the face.
Certain man punched me in the face.
My face hurt.
From my experience, it seems it was not my words that punched me in the face, but his fist,
Obvious garbage...
There are - even words! that cannot be uttered on ATS...apart from the laws that govern thier use/non-use in greater society...
What you are suggesting in the next sentence quoted, is that vilified groups throughout history only really had themselves to blame...that's gotta be a joke?!
Å99
Originally posted by akushla99
Without the words as catalyst...do you think 'certain man' would have punched you in the face?
Å99
Originally posted by Wang Tang
Obvious garbage...
There are - even words! that cannot be uttered on ATS...apart from the laws that govern thier use/non-use in greater society...
What you are suggesting in the next sentence quoted, is that vilified groups throughout history only really had themselves to blame...that's gotta be a joke?!
Å99
Nigger.
If you are white and call a black man this is offensive, so you shouldn't do it. Why is it offensive? Because it will bring up memories of their great great grandparents who came over in slave ships and endured long miserable lives as slaves. Yet black people call each other 'n-word's all the time.
It's not the words that hurt, it's how the listener processes the words.
Originally posted by Wang Tang
Originally posted by akushla99
Without the words as catalyst...do you think 'certain man' would have punched you in the face?
Å99
Without his mother he would not have been born so then he would not have been there to punch me.
So it was his mother that punched me in the face.
We can trace the influences that led to certain man punching me all you want, but the simple fact remains that his fist making physical contact with my face is what caused pain in my face.