Should a permit be required to have babies?, page 1


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Topic started on 26-2-2013 @ 10:46 AM by danielsil18
I don't agree that everyone should have the right to have babies. When someone has a baby, they are creating a person that will be part of society. That baby could grow up to be successful in life and help society or he could be a failure and harm society. It all depends on the growth of the child. Parents are a big part of a child's future.

The child's future depends on how the parents raise him, influences of friends, society, etc. The biggest one is how the parents raise him. At a young age children are like sponges when it comes to learning. They learn from their environment and repeat what they see and hear. Logically children will learn a lot from their parents.

If you ask criminals about their childhood most will say that they never knew their father or mother, parents didn't care about them, parents were addicted to drugs or alcohol, parents were abusive, etc. Only people with a strong character are able to succeed with a bad start in life.

Children are also influenced by friends and society, which is a reflection of how people in general were raised. Children with abusive parents have a chance to repeat what is done to them to other kids in school. Children taught to respect and help others are unlikely to become bullies. Which is why bad parents can indirectly affect other children's lives, not just their own.

I would like people who want to have a baby to go to a parenting school to learn more about parenting and also evaluated to see if they are financially stable to have a baby. Children suffer when parents are financially unstable because the family is in constant stress and problems. If they qualify they are given a permit and then they can have their baby. After that society can expect a baby with a potential to be successful in the future.

Here is an example that shows why people should be taught about children psychology before having children:

I'm sure many of you have watched this video, but this time I want you to watch the children.



If anyone has a different idea or another opinion about parents being required to have a permit in order to have children, then please post them. Thank you.


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 10:57 AM by danielsil18
reply to post by MentorsRiddle



It only takes the liberty from the ones that are not qualified to have children. This would only have the children's future in mind, for a better society in the future.

Please tell me what problems you think it would cause, I want to read what everyone has in mind.


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:02 AM by InhaleExhale
reply to post by danielsil18



It will only make others more profit.


Society requires licensing from scratching your butt to operating quantum machinery.

How has lets say getting people to to obtain a license for driving a motor vehicle actually made drivers better drivers?

All licensing is, is creating databases for corporations or governments to keep a strangle hold over society more easily with the said societies support, sad isn't it.

Very tough issue which if any measures are put forth would go against human rights one way or another.


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:04 AM by danielsil18
reply to post by Wrabbit2000



It's true that people would still have babies, with permit or not. My ideas are kind of radical too because I was thinking of vasectomy for males.

Maybe make them have a vasectomy after they have a child without a permit? That would be really harsh. Maybe a vasectomy when they are very young and then reverse it when they get their permit? also a radical idea but the question is if it would make society a better one in the future?


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:05 AM by danielsil18
reply to post by thisguyrighthere



If it made the future a better place to live, would you accept it? a sacrifice now for a better future?


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:06 AM by Wrabbit2000
Originally posted by danielsil18
reply to
post by MentorsRiddle



It only takes the liberty from the ones that are not qualified to have children. This would only have the children's future in mind, for a better society in the future.

Please tell me what problems you think it would cause, I want to read what everyone has in mind.

If I may, the first problem is highlighted right there. 'It only takes from the ones that are not qualified to have children'".

Okay... In MY mind, that pretty well includes every radical liberal in this nation. I'll bet to the radical, far left? The ban would MORE than include me. So who determines what is "fit to raise a child" and what is not? I'd be interested in seeing written and specific criteria on that, but then we may also get into the nightmares shown by 0 tolerance attitudes elsewhere. No room to think means evil has no challenges to overcome, IMO.


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:10 AM by Chamberf=6
reply to post by danielsil18



Coming soon!

Permits required to engage in foreplay.

Oral sex bans.

These can lead to the dangerous act of coitus which has a chance of conception.

More to come, Big Brother.
edit on 2/26/2013 by Chamberf=6 because: come pun intended



reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:12 AM by danielsil18
reply to post by InhaleExhale



I agree that a driving license doesn't make everyone good driver, but it prevents really bad drivers from being legal drivers.

Having babies is way too easy in my opinion, there needs to be some kind of control where not everyone is allowed to have them, only the ones that can raise them well.

Maybe a license is not the answer, but something has to control it. For a better society of course.


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:15 AM by Chamberf=6
reply to post by danielsil18



A couple could pass all the tests and exams you would prescribe and still end up being lousy parents raising stupid kids with prejudices, anger issues, history of sexual abuse, severe mental illnesses etc., etc.
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reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:16 AM by danielsil18
Originally posted by Wrabbit2000
reply to
post by MentorsRiddle



Okay... In MY mind, that pretty well includes every radical liberal in this nation. I'll bet to the radical, far left? The ban would MORE than include me. So who determines what is "fit to raise a child" and what is not? I'd be interested in seeing written and specific criteria on that, but then we may also get into the nightmares shown by 0 tolerance attitudes elsewhere. No room to think means evil has no challenges to overcome, IMO.


I haven't thought much about this but I had in mind that maybe people who know about the psychology of children. Professionals who know what can affect the life of a child. Be it living in a bad neighborhood, being financial unstable, etc.
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reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:19 AM by danielsil18
reply to post by HTUKno1



I also think a permit could be a bit too much but I think in a world like ours there needs to be extreme measures to make it better. It's all for a better future, not for us to become enslaved.


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:22 AM by danielsil18
Originally posted by Chamberf=6
reply to
post by danielsil18



Coming soon!

Permits required to engage in foreplay.

Oral sex bans.

These can lead to the dangerous act of coitus which has a chance of conception.

More to come, Big Brother.
edit on 2/26/2013 by Chamberf=6 because: come pun intended


I think permits to make sure children have a better future has a better value than all the ones you listed.

I know that we might have a bit less freedom, but it's a small sacrifice for a better future (that's if it's not abused for someone's agenda).


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:23 AM by redhorse
Originally posted by danielsil18

If you ask criminals about their childhood most will say that they never knew their father or mother, parents didn't care about them, parents were addicted to drugs or alcohol, parents were abusive, etc. Only people with a strong character are able to succeed with a bad start in life.


This is not always true, as you have acknowledged. Even if it is true "most" of the time, it is a gross over-simplification.

Originally posted by danielsil18


Children suffer when parents are financially unstable because the family is in constant stress and problems. If they qualify they are given a permit and then they can have their baby. After that society can expect a baby with a potential to be successful in the future.



This smacks of elitism. Poverty is not the only predictive factor for criminal behavior. What you would propose would simply victimize people further for being poor. That is wrong, and socially irresponsible. Making a better life for your children is a huge motivator for many people. If you take away the reason to succeed and attempt to move up the social ladder, you will have an even worse problem with all of your "criminal poor". A huge portion of people born into dire circumstances would give up on trying to change it. Putting another road block in their way is cruel and short-sighted.

Besides there are many, many predatory criminals that are wealthy. They have simply had the luck to be born into a circumstance where they are given a social position, and a social education that allows them to prey upon others within the confines of the law, and social acceptance. They know how to work within the system, and paint their victimization with a coat of respectability. When they step outside of that confine too much they are often able to use their social status and wealth to smooth it over. There are indeed two sets of laws for the poor and the elite. Creating a circumstance where the elite chooses who breeds and who does not is inviting suffering of the worst kind.

Which brings me to my primary point. Human beings are hierarchical. The instinct will be to ensure the survival of your own, and so the people making the rules about who breeds and who does not will hedge bets in the favor of their own offspring, bloodlines, and even general social sphere. Eugenics is all well and good in theory, but in practice we are not able to acquire enough objectivity to be fair.

Besides, individual experience enriches the human tapestry as a whole. I come from a poverty plagued, abusive, alcoholic background, where the identity of my father was in question. I still think that I have something to contribute to society and to teach my children. In fact, I think that my accomplishments through adversity means that I have more to offer rather than less.


reply posted on 26-2-2013 @ 11:26 AM by Wertdagf
reply to post by danielsil18



I agree mothers like that should have their children taken away from them. I doubt we could prevent idiots from having children in the first place.

Without all these poorly raised children who would fill the churches on sundays?
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