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Originally posted by sarra1833
reply to post by boymonkey74
Dogged meaning he said my son is a creepy freak etc. That the entire town talks smack about him and hates him and my bf "can't stand that that is my girlfriends son."
My son is a loner and is very scared of people, can't stand kids his age or kids period. He's more like a 50 year old stuck in a just turned 18 yo's body really.
Originally posted by Patriotsrevenge
reply to post by sarra1833
Seriously, not to be mean but you need to see a shrink. Just being honest. Your damaged goods from any normal persons perspective by a huge margin.edit on 13-1-2013 by Patriotsrevenge because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by MamaJ
reply to post by sarra1833
You have not had sex in 11 years? Did I read that correctly?
Originally posted by sarra1833
I'm sorry I'm not good enough even after explaining from day one how I am. I suppose I can force myself to get into the habit of daily huggles; though now I'm unsure if how I hug people is right. Accourding to him, I hug like a friend. I see on tv and movies how people hug and it's a quick hug with one arm. How do you hug people correctly then? If I've been hugging people wrong my whole life, well...... I'm at a loss then.
Originally posted by sarra1833
Originally posted by MamaJ
reply to post by sarra1833
You have not had sex in 11 years? Did I read that correctly?
Yes. I don't miss it what so ever. It's not needed in my life.
www.asexuality.org...
Originally posted by Destinyone
reply to post by sarra1833
I'm 62. Never even crosses my mind to mention health issues to people when talking with them. I still find life pretty damn exciting for the most part. So. don't think everyone over 55 is a dud. You really do have a lot to look forward to, it's all your perspective that sets the reality of what you get.
You don't have a relationship with the Gentleman you speak of. You should let him go, to find what he needs to make him feel good, and happy. To keep him tethered to you, is selfish on your part. JMOHO...
Des
Originally posted by MamaJ
Originally posted by sarra1833
Originally posted by MamaJ
reply to post by sarra1833
You have not had sex in 11 years? Did I read that correctly?
Yes. I don't miss it what so ever. It's not needed in my life.
www.asexuality.org...
If you relieve yourself.... its needed.
My thoughts are you may need to take time to read self help books, for you and your son. Why? Your day to day life does not sound healthy for you and your family.
If you feel grossed out and dirty from sex then a question arises.... have you ever been molested and or raped? For those who have it sometimes carries over to feelings of shame after a sexual encounter.
My heart goes out to you.... and your family.
Originally posted by DocHolidaze
reply to post by sarra1833
you would be completely wrong with that assumption, comic cons definitely has a youngness to it from my research, but comics have been around since before you and i were born and you will find people of ur age group if that is what u desire, other wise you will find a good time with people that are into video games, movies and comics
please dont write it off so easily
Originally posted by DelayedChristmas
Originally posted by sarra1833
I'm sorry I'm not good enough even after explaining from day one how I am. I suppose I can force myself to get into the habit of daily huggles; though now I'm unsure if how I hug people is right. Accourding to him, I hug like a friend. I see on tv and movies how people hug and it's a quick hug with one arm. How do you hug people correctly then? If I've been hugging people wrong my whole life, well...... I'm at a loss then.
Lol... Hugging with one arm? YOU GOTTA GET YOUR WHOLE SOUL INTO IT MA'AM!
I'm not going to touch on the other subjects put forward in your thread, but I will say something about hugging.
When it's a daily hug, make it count. Don't look towards the daily hug as a chore. If you are shorter than your man, make sure BOTH your arms are underneath his arms. OR, you can have one arm underneath his one shoulder and the other arm over the other shoulder. Embrace the person in the hug. Put some MMPH into it Don't just hold him there; think as if your soul wants to bond with his soul for a momentary time, as if you want to put white back on riceedit on 13-1-2013 by DelayedChristmas because: (no reason given)