posted on Jun, 12 2012 @ 08:19 AM
First of all if your mother is a dropout like you said, you need to face her FIRST, show her that you deserve respect if you're the one supposed to
help the family and pay bills. Don't be that scared about the police factor because i bet that after this shes just as scared.
Second, your elder sister is a bully, period. I believe that you're old enough to handle her if she tries to punch you or something, so just taunt
her. Ask her why is she like that, why cant she act like a normal girl, ask her if a boyfriend left her etc. If she gets aggressive, just point that
out to her. Point out that shes a nice girl whenever shes not acting like that, that this makes her ugly and terrible.
Show her that what she has to lose. By saying things like " if you do it again, ill intervene!" just kinda triggers aggressive behavior really. if
she is gonna try to punch or throw something, at least let her do that with those thoughts in mind, because believe me, she WILL. Shes a girl and
she'll hide it but she'll absorb everything you're saying.
As a last resort, like some ppl already said, just get your sister OUT. She obviously doesn't deserve this, shes being abused unnecessarily. You
don't need to actually go and stay days out or anything, just a healthy trip to a store or for a soda will do.