What is a legal way for a man to subdue a woman?, page 2


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reply posted on 11-6-2012 @ 11:33 PM by skepticconwatcher
reply to post by Mizzijr



The cops are of no use in this situation. (are they ever?) You need to contact Child Protective Services.

If you mother can't seem to comprehend what you are trying to tell her (which is correct) then maybe they can explain to it to her.

Ya know ?


reply posted on 11-6-2012 @ 11:35 PM by Mizzijr
Originally posted by facelift
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post by Mizzijr



you are unfit to be in this thread.





What sucks more - your sense of humor or this thread..?




lol.. sorry... man, I'm usually humorous, but I'm kinda not feeling it at the moment.. sorry again.
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reply posted on 11-6-2012 @ 11:51 PM by Dookie Master
reply to post by charles1952



The OP can get into A LOT of trouble if he does this without proper training. This is a therapeutic hold that I offered in my response. It takes training to NOT be held accountable for a persons bruises and injuries. Without at least a minimal class the OP will be seen by the police as doing little more than a wrestling hold. Many extension agencies hold classes on this type of intervention. I will state again, this can ONLY be used in a situation where a person may hurt themselves or others. Since it is his family he does not need anymore than his mother's verbal agreement to stop his sisters from injuring one another. He CANNOT use this hold on anyone else that has not signed a contract for services. Edit: and he has to be licensed in his state to perform these services.
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reply posted on 11-6-2012 @ 11:52 PM by sonnny1
reply to post by Mizzijr



There is no way actually. ANYTHING you do,will result in being imprisoned.The laws are easily designed to see you incarcerated.

Move out.

Or face jail time.


reply posted on 11-6-2012 @ 11:57 PM by Mizzijr
Originally posted by charles1952
I have heard about and seen the basket hold. You might watch it here in slow motion:



This is perfect.. I can work with this.. Thank you very much.

If anybody else may have any other "holds" or legal "submission techniques" that would be great.


reply posted on 11-6-2012 @ 11:59 PM by Mizzijr
Originally posted by Dookie Master
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post by charles1952



The OP can get into A LOT of trouble if he does this without proper training. This is a therapeutic hold that I offered in my response. It takes training to NOT be held accountable for a persons bruises and injuries. Without at least a minimal class the OP will be seen by the police as doing little more than a wrestling hold. Many extension agencies hold classes on this type of intervention. I will state again, this can ONLY be used in a situation where a person may hurt themselves or others. Since it is his family he does not need anymore than his mother's verbal agreement to stop his sisters from injuring one another. He CANNOT use this hold on anyone else that has not signed a contract for services. Edit: and he has to be licensed in his state to perform these services.
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Well damn. Shot down. I probably need to listen to you more then. I seen your last post but it didn't seem clear since I didn't read the "Note". This makes more sense.

Just read it though. lol thanks.
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reply posted on 12-6-2012 @ 12:02 AM by KilrathiLG
reply to post by Mizzijr



depending on your state one or more of the people you mentioned could be guilty of domestic violence(laws varry by state) so id be careful posting this kind of stuff,if your related dating or cohabitating you can be hit with a dv charge so next time just call the cops and maby the bully will learn her lesson after she runs her mouth in prison and figures out shes not the top dog in the world

but from a legal stand point restraining a female you live with is rarely a good idea as a male unlles shes armed and you have it on video as in my expirence if the female says you hit her and she as any kind of marks (even if you didnt inflcit them) you as the male will get blamed and most likely taken to jail so to answer your question just dont do it.....



reply posted on 12-6-2012 @ 12:05 AM by ScatterBrain
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I would say based on their ages, let them fight it out. Stay out of it, take a walk. Never call 911 unless it is an emergency, like a life threatening situation.


reply posted on 12-6-2012 @ 12:21 AM by Dookie Master
reply to post by Mizzijr



I u2u so as not to muddy the waters in your thread. I believe you said you live in GA. If so, our two states have similar laws regarding how to appropriately handle this type of situation. Also, if near Atlanta I know there are free classes you can take. Let me see if my QC contact can find one. I'll be back tomorrow, don't want to call him this late. Good luck, stick with your family. "You can choose your friends, but..."


reply posted on 12-6-2012 @ 06:01 AM by getreadyalready
reply to post by Mizzijr



That is a shame man. You have to get away from that dangerous situation. If your sisters are 14 and 15, then they need to be acting better. If your mother calls the police on you for something so trivial, then she is not your friend either.

You are 21, so go get an apartment, or move in with a friend or something. You might still be able to have a relationship with your family from afar, but living in that house is going to get you in trouble.

And the answer to your OP is.... "none." There is no "legal" way to "subdue" someone. Maybe next time you should call the police instead of letting mom do it. Or, you could call Child Welfare and let them know your mother is putting your sisters in a dangerous situation. Maybe let your sisters know you are going to do that everytime they fight, and they might end up in Foster Care if they can't straighten up and act right. I'm usually against getting the authorities involved, but since your mother is eager to do it, then you might have to fight dirty and beat her to the punch.
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