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I have nothing to look forward to. If I had the cajones, I'd put a bullet in my head, but I don't. So this.
Flame me all you want and call me names, but I am just asking for some advice on how best to survive. I'll have a wad of cash and no destination in mind, so I'll have to live however I can until the money runs out. Hopefully I'll have landed an under-the-table job somewhere before that happens and I'll be able to rent a room. Perhaps a bartending job on a beach somewhere, who knows.
Originally posted by ValentineWiggin
I have nothing to look forward to. If I had the cajones, I'd put a bullet in my head, but I don't. So this.
Originally posted by quedup
Hey - Tough Times you say - NO you are at a Bump in the Road that's all. Not easy I know but just get things into perspective here. Stop the Panic Attack because that's all it is. Your daughter was born 10 weeks ago - how the hell do you think your wife feels - a new baby and financial worries on top along with a husband who can't or won't protect her from it all.
What happened to 'For Better or for Worse' ????
Assure her over and over and over that you'll find a way out of it all - not just a way out of it for YOU - this should not be about you saying Me Me Me - I bet your wife could say just the same. You do this together but unfortunately your wifes' contribution to getting you all out of a hole is rather limited at the moment - woman have babies!
Get out and buy some sacks of potatoes - weigh them and bag them up and sell them round the streets - whatever it takes - go wash some cars - go cut some grass - go do what ever it takes - go shovel some # - find a safe place for your wife and kids to live while you build it all back up again - You might just earn her respect back - because it sounds like she has none left for you - I wonder why?
Above all - MAKE A DECISION THAT HELPS YOUR FAMILY SURVIVE NOT JUST YOU.
There are many members/non members who could tell you tales that would make your problems look like a walk in the park - MAN UP!
Advice?