Tell me your problem and I'll help raise your vibration!

I didnt think they allowed pornography on this site.
vibrations

Originally posted by apushforenlightment

Originally posted by MoneyIsWorthless

Again, the problem lies inside, not outside with other people. Why do evil-doers make you feel hate for them? What makes you hate them?

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I don't hate them I just can't bring myself to love them because in their mind they can't see how connected we all are and they also fail to see that hurting someone is only hurting yourself. I know they are just other parts of me that are lost. It's just very hard to look upon a rapist/child murderer etc and don't judge them and feel nothing but love in my heart for them... I think this is the thing holding me back, How can I forgive them? You're hurting the most precious we have. Sometimes I wish the whole world would think like me, but that would not work at all.

I sometimes have problem with this also. If you can find something you can do to help/change things than do that. Think of them as animal souls that have not understod the truth yeet. Karma will send them where they need to be and they will have to learn what they need. You don''t need to judge them or hate them because it don't help you/them or the victims. You don't need to love their actions or who they are as a person. Instead love the divine posibility in them that they have a chance to grow to become a loving part of all. You can feel sad for them because in thruth they are prolonging their misery. You and me both know that you are on your path to a place that is better than this.

Thank you for this explanation, It is pretty close to my own that I had in my head yesterday. I came to realize yesterday that I have to forgive them to forgive myself for the mistakes I've done in this and previous lives(Why we are here). There is no other way. I will do as you say and see the divine in everyone. Yes I do know we are going somewhere else but we have to take all our brothers and sisters, I know they will get there in the end too but I just wish we could all go like one big happy family...

Originally posted by sarra1833
Can't find work anywhere, all of our stuff is turned off save the electric and that will be off soon too. No food save a few things, rent due in 2 days and have 24 cents to my name. I Just need help cleaning out my chakras and finding my zen again .It's so far down deep in blackness. All my life is lately is stress, worry, terror, shame, hopelessness. I know being positive helps draw things to you but I just can not find the energy to /care/ and I need to. I need to care again so I can clean my self out, clean my house, start caring again. right now it seems so hopeless and worthless. No, not suicidal. You never know what tomorrow will bring and I sure don't want to miss the golden ticket, but still. I'm so lost in myself.

I can tell my vibrations are so low they're barely perceivable, almost a super super low barely moving dead lull.... best way to describe it. If you can help, I'd so appreciate it.

Well first off, you DO indeed care, other wise you wouldn't be asking and you would be OK with feeling depressed and sad. Next, your life isn't stress, your life just is, you are the one that is feeling the stress, so change that. Find a way to think different about the current situation in a way that you'll feel better.

Is there anything at all that you can do to get happy? Go to the park, watch a movie, go on YouTube to watch a comedy, do anything. Be happy so that you can clear your mind. You'll be able to think and focus better.

Don't worry, even if your life goes completely down hill, it MUST come back up eventually. Just keep focusing on things that makes you happy for now even if it doesn't relate to this situation. The happiness is what you looking for and once you get it in anyway you can, you'll be able to look back at this situation with clarity.


Many thanks to you

Sure you will...

Anyways I'll bite and almost try something once. Can't hurt and if works well hey awesome for me right? Also I'm assuming this is a free service.

OT: Okay, I've been pretty lonely lately, and feeling like I'm missing out on finding love and enjoying my youth. I wish I could go out and solve the problem, but I left my car and job back home since I've moved here in hopes of a better life and a better job. The progress on that is has been slow and theres not much I can do about but just sit around and wait.

So theres my problem.

Originally posted by arpgme
All problems that exist in your life has nothing to do with people. It has to do with the relationship between you and you. All of your problems can be solved by looking into yourself. Tell me your problem and I'll help you look inside and raise your vibration to your natural, pure, angelic state. So, what is your question/problem?

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I'm in love with someone i shouldn't be in love with....

I'm a senior varsity football player and I've been working my whole high school career for this season and I have an injury that is supposed to be season ending in my foot. Help me.

I am seeing a patern on ATS.
Infomation gathering.
posts like this one get you to tell things about your self.
it all ads up. they can build a very detailed piture of you.
THEM are or are using ATS.
ATS keep a record of your IP address.

I would like to add to this post.
But I dont Trust ATS. sorry.
I bet ATS delete me any way.
they must keep this a secret from you!

Originally posted by BohemianBrim
reply to post by arpgme

 

lol

whats the point of "happy"?

The point of being happy is to feel good, unless you like suffering and feeling bad - be happy.

Originally posted by Saucerwench
My problem has always been getting shunned and treated like a pariah by other people interested in the ufo subject, one of my keen interests, plus I'm an 'experiencer' . I just hate that, and last night, I was thinking about it and started to cry, and I have not cried about something like that in many years. My tears ran out/dried up from all the crying I did in my life.
Whats up with that?

You can't control everyone around you and get them to all agree/believe you, so the best thing to do is not care about their opinion and to just know what you know. Those who are ready and wanting to hear about this, you can talk to them with ease.

Originally posted by User8911

Originally posted by UniverSoul
my problem is: i need a business idea lol

Your lucky, I need money. Good ideas are flowing like no tomorrow in my head -_-

Actually, my biggest problem is to start in the music business.
I got good songs, I got talent that's for sure! But I have no contacts...

No contacts, no money...which is pretty much also stopping me from starting my own business. I have a lot of qualities to be a boss while my biggest flaw is that I can't stand stupid authority.

Help me raise my vibration

A good start would also be for you guys to check out my music in the links in my signature, this stuff is really good!! I'm not the boasting type...it just seems to be the only thing till now that I really really do well.

Let's see, what can you do to feel a little better about this?

So, you want to be able to make your music, have a contract, get money, and have little to no authority...

First off, my advice to you is to realize that even if you decide to do something, you don't have to do it forever. If your desire to make music is really that strong, you should just take a contract which you feel is good for you and put up with authority. That is, of course, if your desire to make music outweighs your desire to be free of authority. The happiness will be so strong that you'd think less and less about this "authority".

You know what they say "a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single footstep". Sure, you have a place where you want to be, but you have to take it one step at a time in order to get there.


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I would suggest not worrying that you have to energies since you were born that way, and to find your natural harmony. Just flow with your life. Allow the energy to be, understand that all is well and when you need one or the other it'll be there. You're good as you are! Give your attention more to the positive energy if that's what you are wanting. All will be well.

Originally posted by InshaAllah
Well i supposedly have some major anger issues, although im recently hyper-thyriod to hypo thyriod now, both of which can cause one's anger to peak for almost no reason. im tired of being angry all the time.

and the messed up part is i was always a very docile person growing up. yea i got some issue's with life in general. but who dosnt.

thanx in advance
and god bles

Insha'Allah
God willing

If you are angry with someone, let the situation go. Forgive (in your mind) and know that they have freewill and you can't force them to change. If they have a wrong opinion or if they want to take your freedom away, just let them have their wrong opinion and know that you are right.

As for anger with things or situations or life in general, these feel even more uncontrollable. The best thing to do to feel better about this is to know that regardless of what's going on, you can always refocus yourself to being happy. You can go for tea, or walk in a park, or gaze at stars, you can do something to make you happy again and not think of what angered you. Whatever angered you is in the past, so let it stay there. Stay happy and don't look back.

Also, know that it's OK to feel angry. That is a natural and beautiful emotion. Acknowledge how you feel emotionally and be OK with that, and now you'll enable yourself to feel better.

Originally posted by dashen
I need a tremendous amount of wealth in order continue my charitable activities, eg feeding my local hungry, educating my local stupid, clothing my local chilly.

Vibrate me already.

Be proud of yourself and feel happy about all those times that you were able to help others. Milk that feeling for all it's worth, afterwards, allow your problem to drift away and think about other things.

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I worry too much about having sex and it causes me to have many problems in my relationships. I feel very unstable emotionally. I also feel like I have failed and since then my heart has felt very weak. I have no problem admitting this.

Originally posted by Manhater
reply to post by UniverSoul

 

I don't cheat. I work hard and learn hard.

You get no where in life cheating.


Bad bad advice. lol

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Actually, you get quite far by cheating. Most monetarily successful people in this world are liars, cheats, and thieves.

Originally posted by veronicveil77
This is my problem can you help me with it , your wrong bad people cause problems in our lives too

But the core problem is the vibrational one, the problem between you and you.

Originally posted by SLAPurMAMA
reply to post by arpgme

 

I REALLY need a job ASAP! I have been out of work for almost a year now, and I really want to work! No one is hiring, I apply and no dice!

I would suggest not watching news about the economic crisis, or anything that can make you feel worse about this subject. Continue your job search but don't feel bad if you don't find anything... Just keep thinking "another day will come, I'll find something eventually, eventually I must I can't keep doing this forever without finding something!" This is the first step in changing your vibration to this problem.

In summary:

Keep doing what you're doing but be optimistic, keep hope, even if you don't find anything. Don't worry and know that the perfect job is out there and eventually you WILL find it because you never give up! And avoid news about money problems which will make you feel bad.

Originally posted by KILL_DOGG
reply to post by arpgme

 

My wife's vibrator isn't working....can you help her with that?
2nd line

Get her a new one and get batteries. Sounds like the easiest solution to this problem and it'll definitely help raise the vibration - physically and energetically.

Originally posted by outandopen
Why is the number 11 so significant (to me) recently.

That is where your attention is more focused. A better question is how does this number make you feel? If it makes you feel great, then keep it going, if not, change focus.

Originally posted by creatureme
reply to post by arpgme

 

The moral thing I should wish to say… I should say love is wise, hatred is foolish. In this world which is getting more closely and closely interconnected we have to learn to tolerate each other, we have to learn to put up with the fact that some people say things that we don’t like. We can only live together in that way and if we are to live together and not die together we must learn a kind of charity and a kind of tolerance which is absolutely vital to the continuation of human life on this planet.”

This type of thinking is good for your vibration. Love is always good for the vibration.

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The key is not to ignore pain and suffering, it's to work through it. It's to find a different perspective to be happy. The only pain and suffering worth ignoring is the one which you have absolutely no control over it. If you can't control it, then there is nothing you can do about it anyway, and suffering over the uncontrollable lowers the vibration. The key is finding a way to get happy.

Originally posted by GrimReaper86
I'm not sure if you can help me but I'll take all the help I can get....I need help with some web design stuff. I need to catch up on a web page class I have. I'm not very good with web design and I'm trying to get better but I have difficulty with includes...and in particular issues with something called ssi. Yep....

First I would be optimistic about it. I would be thinking to myself, "Well, I'm doing the best I can, I'm giving all my effort so there's nothing more I can do anyway so I might as well hope for the best". Then I would just do my best and hope for the best and stop worrying.

Next, just for fun,, I would play with some of the concepts from web design on my spare time, it would be a fun way to practice and get better.

Originally posted by Celestica
I love threads like these. Love to see people being positive and helping others.

I've been having some pretty bad bouts of anxiety for the last few months. Some days I just feel generally well and other days I feel like I'm dying every other second. My mind just races and I can't seem to calm it down.

First off, be happy that you have days where you feel well. Do you know what causes the anxiety? If you can find it then you can work your way up to feeling a bit more optimistic each day. Another thing that you can do is, when you have the anxiety, sit down or lay down and think about the days where you were find. Recapture that feeling and revel in it.

Originally posted by smileypants
reply to post by arpgme

 

This is really cool. My problem is that I hang on to bad feelings and grudges. I guess I let other people control my emotions. Help would be nice

First off, it is awesome that you realize this. When you allow other people, things, and situations to make you feel bad, they are controlling you by emotions. Isn't it nice to reclaim your power by having control over you emotions? That feels good. The only thing to it is to do it. You have to decide that feeling happy and loving feels to good to sacrifice to feel angry and hateful to other people. Acknowledge that when you are happy you are being your true self and when you aren't your head is clouded and you are not being the full person that you are. As for grudges, it's best not to think about them. Leave what happened in the past where it belongs. When you think about the bad stuff that happened to you, you don't feel good, accept that it happens acknowledge how you grew as a person because of it and focus on being happy now.

Originally posted by starwarsisreal
my problem is I can't hear properly I don't want hearing aids and yet I wish I get normal hearing.

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The key here is to accept yourself and love yourself as you are. If you want hearing and you think that the only way to get it is through the hearing aid, the best thing to do is to just get the hearing aid. Figure out why you don't want the hearing aid, is it because you don't want others to judge you? Find the reason and be more positive about it. If you really, really, really, wanted the hearing you would just get the hearing aid and get it over with and not care about other's opinions of you (if that's what you are worried about).

Originally posted by annonymous1234
reply to post by NorEaster

 

Thanks for the reply.
I would love to see a chiropractor but unfortunately I don't think I'm covered for that and do not have the money either. These migraines are quite recent and very painful. How likely is it that after 2 years I'm finally getting these pains now? and just from experience I can say that the THC actually makes the pain completely disappear in a matter of a few moments. Also I'll add that I awoke this morning with a migraine and after I walked around for about 5 minutes (bathroom and back) it had disappeared, only to come back a couple hours later to wake me again. The second time, walking around didn't fix anything.

Here are some powerful things that you can say to yourself:

"Even though, my body is aching I completely and fully love and accept myself. I know that this too will come to pass. I know that my body is working hard on this problem to fix this and things will get easier over time. They always do! As for now, I'm going to keep myself happy with the body does its job and if there is something that I can do to help my body along, I'll help it."

Now let go. Stay feeling this way and you'll keep your high vibration and be on the track that you want to be on.

Originally posted by Manhater

All that studying for nothing. ARGH.. Headache didn't help. I think I only got 1 question right off the whole test. Cell Theory. Might have gotten 3 right if I didn't change my mind on 2 of the questions. It's like nothing I studied was even on the test.

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It's gonna be OK. It already happened. Make peace with the situation and move on.

Originally posted by MsAphrodite
I have to memorize a large presentation and I am having a very hard time. Any help is greatly appreciated!

Confidence, and remember to allow your body to talk to you, if you get sleepy, sleep. Don't over do it. Hope for the best.

Originally posted by christina-66
Ok - can I be helped with positive vibrations? It can't get worse. I'm involved in a court case against the legal establishment. We have the law on our side - and the case law - but the system is against us and has been for 16 years.

How do I raise my vibrational level to straighten out bent judges?

Know that you are right and they are wrong, regardless of what happens so if it doesn't go your way, you won through morality anyway, and no authority can change that! Right now, it's about them doing the right thing, but you can't control that so just hope for the best and have confidence.

reply to post by PositivelyDetermined


Accept yourself as you are. Ask yourself why do you worry. This will help you get to the core of your problem.

Originally posted by smileypants
reply to post by arpgme

 

This is really cool. My problem is that I hang on to bad feelings and grudges. I guess I let other people control my emotions. Help would be nice

First off, it is awesome that you realize this. When you allow other people, things, and situations to make you feel bad, they are controlling you by emotions. Isn't it nice to reclaim your power by having control over you emotions? That feels good. The only thing to it is to do it. You have to decide that feeling happy and loving feels to good to sacrifice to feel angry and hateful to other people. Acknowledge that when you are happy you are being your true self and when you aren't your head is clouded and you are not being the full person that you are. As for grudges, it's best not to think about them. Leave what happened in the past where it belongs. When you think about the bad stuff that happened to you, you don't feel good, accept that it happens acknowledge how you grew as a person because of it and focus on being happy now.

Originally posted by starwarsisreal
my problem is I can't hear properly I don't want hearing aids and yet I wish I get normal hearing.

edit on 5-10-2011 by starwarsisreal because: (no reason given)

The key here is to accept yourself and love yourself as you are. If you want hearing and you think that the only way to get it is through the hearing aid, the best thing to do is to just get the hearing aid. Figure out why you don't want the hearing aid, is it because you don't want others to judge you? Find the reason and be more positive about it. If you really, really, really, wanted the hearing you would just get the hearing aid and get it over with and not care about other's opinions of you (if that's what you are worried about).

Originally posted by annonymous1234
reply to post by NorEaster

 

Thanks for the reply.
I would love to see a chiropractor but unfortunately I don't think I'm covered for that and do not have the money either. These migraines are quite recent and very painful. How likely is it that after 2 years I'm finally getting these pains now? and just from experience I can say that the THC actually makes the pain completely disappear in a matter of a few moments. Also I'll add that I awoke this morning with a migraine and after I walked around for about 5 minutes (bathroom and back) it had disappeared, only to come back a couple hours later to wake me again. The second time, walking around didn't fix anything.

Here are some powerful things that you can say to yourself:

"Even though, my body is aching I completely and fully love and accept myself. I know that this too will come to pass. I know that my body is working hard on this problem to fix this and things will get easier over time. They always do! As for now, I'm going to keep myself happy with the body does its job and if there is something that I can do to help my body along, I'll help it."

Now let go. Stay feeling this way and you'll keep your high vibration and be on the track that you want to be on.

Originally posted by Manhater

All that studying for nothing. ARGH.. Headache didn't help. I think I only got 1 question right off the whole test. Cell Theory. Might have gotten 3 right if I didn't change my mind on 2 of the questions. It's like nothing I studied was even on the test.

edit on 5-10-2011 by Manhater because: (no reason given)

It's gonna be OK. It already happened. Make peace with the situation and move on.

Originally posted by MsAphrodite
I have to memorize a large presentation and I am having a very hard time. Any help is greatly appreciated!

Confidence, and remember to allow your body to talk to you, if you get sleepy, sleep. Don't over do it. Hope for the best.

Originally posted by christina-66
Ok - can I be helped with positive vibrations? It can't get worse. I'm involved in a court case against the legal establishment. We have the law on our side - and the case law - but the system is against us and has been for 16 years.

How do I raise my vibrational level to straighten out bent judges?

Know that you are right and they are wrong, regardless of what happens so if it doesn't go your way, you won through morality anyway, and no authority can change that! Right now, it's about them doing the right thing, but you can't control that so just hope for the best and have confidence.

reply to post by PositivelyDetermined


Accept yourself as you are. Ask yourself why do you worry. This will help you get to the core of your problem.

reply to post by sarra1833


I'm also now in more debt than i have ever been, but i keep my chin up, you know why? Not of arrogance or ignorance, not of hate or ego, but realization. Realizing that this situation, or any other situation does not defines me. Not even my fears define who i am, not hate or any other emotion, your bigger than your life, you are bigger than your emotions, and love is an emotion yes, but it is bigger than our emotions. All my life i have wondered and questioned about things bigger than my life, if it was there when i would die, and i found it, it's love. Read any story about NDE (near death experience) and you will see the feeling of love and being loved mentioned everywhere.
Again the situation you are now in, it does not defines you, you my friend define yourself! I hope this helps, let go instead of fighting yourself, give love to all your emotion, even love your fears and the time is around that you won't have to wait much longer, you are not alone... PEACE

Originally posted by arpgme
All problems that exist in your life has nothing to do with people. It has to do with the relationship between you and you. All of your problems can be solved by looking into yourself. Tell me your problem and I'll help you look inside and raise your vibration to your natural, pure, angelic state. So, what is your question/problem?

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OK, here goes...

My problem is with these arrogant self-centered would be messiahs who promise to "raise your vibration to your natural, pure, angelic state".

Me thinks these types have been spending far to much time with their vibrator in hand.

.................

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not all problems can be solved so easily. I know you feel like you have all the answers due to your elevated state of being but as I have discovered there are forces that try to prevent your spiritual growth or your becoming. what I want and what will ultimately make me happy is already being denied by TPTB so I have to disagree with your happy go lucky view of the world. I wont go into too much detail but here are some of the things I would need to make me truly feel bliss
1. Disclosure of et presence on earth from nasa or Obama himself
2.World Peace, end to all wars or conflicts
3.New System of economics so not one person is out of work
4.Outer Galactic travel to new Earth like planets
5.Extreme wealth
6.Immortality in this flesh
there are other things I desire but that's a topic for another thread,
so you see not every problem can be solved with a positive attitude and connecting with your inner self there are some things that by today's standard are impossible. and everyday I get more proof we are prisoners on a prison planet. the joy we do find is illusion at best or short lived. so all the positive vibes and connecting to source has left me wanting more. like a hunger that cannot be satisfied. but if you have a way for me to accomplish all that I desire please share your insights

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I am starting my own fitness business and fear doing it alone. I fear not enough people will come though I have an excellent marketing plan. I do have waves of doubt, which is normal I suppose. The closer I get to opening (2 weeks) the more jumbled and obscure my goals and plan of action seems to get. I already have the plan of action on paper in steps, but I still feel "lost" I guess.....

Thanks.

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Your not alone buddy! And I have two kids and a wife who dumps plenty on me to do lol. Theory: To much on the brain share with your soul group, that is people you have chosen to learn with in this life.