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Originally posted by dontreally
reply to post by Thoriumisbest
Well, im not wrong.
I dont mean to offend anyone. But the fact is: Desires CAN be changed. This is a basic fact, known since time immemorial, but due to propaganda/social factors, can be difficult to understand.
Originally posted by dontreally
What's also needed is a bit of imagination. You have to desire the opposite - and the most important thing in stressing this point is: DO NOT FEAR OR ASSUME YOU ARE UNABLE TO BE ATTRACTED TO THE OTHER SEX.
...YOU HAVE THE ABILITY - FUNDAMENTALLY SPEAKING - to change your desires. Thus, the great cure lies in BELIEF - and only through belief can the seemingly impossible be achieved.
Originally posted by dontreally
reply to post by SaturnFX
For a spiritual guy, you are amazingly ignorant
Originally posted by SaturnFX
Originally posted by dontreally
reply to post by Thoriumisbest
Well, im not wrong.
I dont mean to offend anyone. But the fact is: Desires CAN be changed. This is a basic fact, known since time immemorial, but due to propaganda/social factors, can be difficult to understand.
and so answer my question
Can I, or someone else, talk you into being a homosexual?
simple yes or no. by your admission, you can indeed be talked into it..because somewhere in the back of your mind, you already harbor such feelings that you have simply not nurtured..
so, admit it then...you can totally be talked into being a flaming homosexual, grow a moustache, wear leather chaps and straps, etc...
See, now, the thought of that makes me cringe..just sitting here as Mr. Anonymous, whom -fully- accepts gay people to live their life and be happy however they see fit cannot even give a moments thought of it without feeling deep seeded revulsion.
When I was a kid that had absolutely nothing sexually in my mind and came across dad's old penthouses...the male didn't interest me whatsoever...however, the female was absolutely fascinating to me. I had no clue about such stuff.
To me, my hetrosexuality started when I was able to even have initial feelings about people in general...I imagine a homosexual person has the same feelings (but with their own sex)..
I cannot understand the gay mindset...which makes me believe that it is in fact a different mindset. I cannot understand how girls find men attractive (but I don't complain that they do).
So, back to the question...
Can someone talk you into being gay?
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incidently, sorry about the visual of the san francisco pride parade style gay, just felt a extreme example was in order to get the full impact of what is being suggested.
Originally posted by lellomackin
Originally posted by dontreally
What's also needed is a bit of imagination. You have to desire the opposite - and the most important thing in stressing this point is: DO NOT FEAR OR ASSUME YOU ARE UNABLE TO BE ATTRACTED TO THE OTHER SEX.
...YOU HAVE THE ABILITY - FUNDAMENTALLY SPEAKING - to change your desires. Thus, the great cure lies in BELIEF - and only through belief can the seemingly impossible be achieved.
So, in the interest of bettering humanity, why don"t you give this a shot?
Go on out there and test your theory and become gay for a year.
I would suggest you film your experience as I think it would make a fascinating documentary.
If, after a year, you have become fully gay you can show the world that your theory actually works in practice.
I know it probably goes against your grain, as I am sure this idea would to gay people as well, but as you stated if YOU can overcome your fear then anyone could.
I think you should go for it, what do you think?
Originally posted by dontreally
Liber was a god in ancient Rome. look it up. Do you not think Liber, and liberalis are related?
but I also believe that it's too strongly engraved into some people to be able to change it
I don't see how anyone, who's ever truly been in love, can say those feelings can be immoral if directed at the wrong person. And the sexual side of it, I've never seen any convincing argument that some actions between two consenting people, who are fully capable of true consent, can be immoral either. So the only incentive people have to change is an old book, that is wholly irrelevant to those who don't believe in it.
Originally posted by MJZoo
reply to post by dontreally
Yeah and being "colored" Or like when people are born missing an arm...why can't they just grow it already?!? It's obvious that anyone who is born being anything other than what society considers "normal" should immediately overcome their differences and become us. You know, people who are perfect in God's eyes. One's who constantly make it a point that they AREN'T judging when, secretly, we know we are judging. If you aren't exactly as man is described in the bible then you need to fix yourself.
Originally posted by Char-Lee
they have shown that many little boys abused as children by men grow up to be homosexual also, so that seems to say something.
Originally posted by Annee
I tried to take this thread seriously - - as the OP did make the effort to present it intelligently.
However: "Same Crap - Different Day"
You are what you are born. Homosexuals are not broken.
They do not need to be fixed - because ignorant people choose a belief system - rather then facts.edit on 10-6-2011 by Annee because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by dontreally
I admit, ive gone its the lions den with this discussion. 96% of the posters here are die-hard liberals. Im merely stating what i believe is clearly the truth.