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Originally posted by dontreally
reply to post by Annee
lol.... thats funny.
No. I'm saying i have experienced homosexual feelings and i could if i wanted to experience them. You too
Originally posted by Cuervo
reply to post by Benevolent Heretic
Yeah, I think I understand where he's coming from. He said he's been down that road and has learned to hide (repress, deny, etc) his homosexual urges and now he wants all gay people to do the same.
Originally posted by dontreally
I think you may have gotten the impression that "from my own experience" statement in my thread referred to homosexual impulses.
Is it so suprising that anyone can be attracted to any human being?
Another poster said something that i think has truth. We are all somewhere along a spectrum.
This being the case, some have alot more work to do then others to correct the imbalance.
It takes time, effort, and many falling downs.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
While I can and have been attracted to other women, I don't believe that my husband could EVER be attracted to the same sex. It would be the most unnatural thing for him. Remember, just because something works for you, that doesn't mean it will work for everyone.
If they're happy being gay, why should they try to change?
Originally posted by dontreally
reply to post by Skyfloating
YABC, Fox, the NBA, CNN - all in unison - are making sure homosexuality is completely accepted, and seen as normal. And those who think differently - are abnormal, cruel, or criminals (this is the tone you get)
Originally posted by dontreally
reply to post by Skyfloating
You know the NBA now has commercials to the effect of "dont say gay for things that are stupid. Its uncreative, its not cool. Its offensive to gay people"...
A few NBA players have been fined $100,000 - an insane amount, because they said 'gay', for something they thought was stupid, or dumb.
Is it really that important? Look at TV shows like glee, modern family.. They have seriously picked up their agenda; project destroy biblical values is in full effect, and has been for awhile. Just now its being literally stuffed down our throats. ABC, Fox, the NBA, CNN - all in unison - are making sure homosexuality is completely accepted, and seen as normal. And those who think differently - are abnormal, cruel, or criminals (this is the tone you get)
Im a Bible believer, and you know that. The Torah explicitly says "a male shall not lay with another male". Metaphysically this makes total sense.
Another incredible piece of information comes from the Talmud. The Rabbis in the Talmud say, homiletically of course, that the determinning factor in G-ds destroying the world before the biblical flood was homosexuality. This represented to them the complete reversal of G-ds intentions; to unify the creation; between masculine and feminine; himself and his shekinah(his indwelling presence), the infinite and finite etc. When man failed to accomplish this by living in accordance with the divine dynamic, they brought the flood on themselves.
So, the Talmud goes on to say; the end of days wont come until Homosexuality is legalized. And lo' and behold, in the last 2 years especially, the campaign to recognize homosexual rights (and i mean, those 2 TV shows, Glee and modern Family, both fabulously succesful, have come out within the last 2 years. CNNs documentary is soon to come out. The NBA 'no nonsense' policy towards the word 'gay', fining players exorbitant sums for using it for 'stupid', and running commericals against using the word, just further shows how it has really picked up steam lately) has really picked up. Is this coincidence? Metaphysically speaking, no. It goes against the natural dynamic the creator established. Just because an ABERRANT example exists in nature, doesnt mean we too our subject to that defect. Does nature have free will? does it have the ability to change itself? Man is something different alltogether; in a whole 'nother category.
Originally posted by dontreally
To go more deeply into the psyche of a homosexual. Im pretty sure i understand what he is feeling. To him, only males 'excite' him, and arouses the energy we call sexual attraction. Because this feeling feels so wrong, or at the very least, abnormal (you have to be completely devoid of discernment to not understand that a male goes with a female. This isnt' trite' just because society says so. It is a natural, reasonable perception that is literally a byprdoduct of human reason) it bothers him. He feels an anxiety that he feels this way. And when he tries to experiment - through masturbation - , he cant seem to arouse a desire for it. Theres literally a 'depression' standing in the way of his want to be straight, and the current reality that what excites him is homosexual imagery. What he doesnt quite understand though, is that his 'want' to be straight, and his anxiety/depression, with not feeling that way (and if hes a christian/Jew without much spiritual knowledge, this only exacerbates the burden) undermines his ability to overcome it.
Also, one shouldnt be defined by their sexual preference. To say one is an "individual" because he likes people of the same sex, is pretty superficial. There are much deeper aspects to the self then who i want to have sex with.
Originally posted by Lakotas
Originally posted by dontreally
To go more deeply into the psyche of a homosexual. Im pretty sure i understand what he is feeling. To him, only males 'excite' him, and arouses the energy we call sexual attraction. Because this feeling feels so wrong, or at the very least, abnormal (you have to be completely devoid of discernment to not understand that a male goes with a female. This isnt' trite' just because society says so. It is a natural, reasonable perception that is literally a byprdoduct of human reason) it bothers him. He feels an anxiety that he feels this way. And when he tries to experiment - through masturbation - , he cant seem to arouse a desire for it. Theres literally a 'depression' standing in the way of his want to be straight, and the current reality that what excites him is homosexual imagery. What he doesnt quite understand though, is that his 'want' to be straight, and his anxiety/depression, with not feeling that way (and if hes a christian/Jew without much spiritual knowledge, this only exacerbates the burden) undermines his ability to overcome it.
Also, one shouldnt be defined by their sexual preference. To say one is an "individual" because he likes people of the same sex, is pretty superficial. There are much deeper aspects to the self then who i want to have sex with.
If you want to get into the psyche of a homosexual, have at it, I'm right here.
What you have just described is exactly what I felt during the many years I fought being gay. I have no "want" to be straight. On the contrary, I have an immense gratitude to God, Life and the Universe that I am gay. It has taught me facets of life that I would not have experienced any other way. Contrary to some beliefs, being gay has not hampered me on this path that I follow, Nay, it has enriched it. My partner is a man that tests me at every turn, brings me back to earth when I get too "Puffy", and is there for me no matter the circumstance. For that I can be nothing but grateful. Were I the "preferred alignment" I would not have the life that I now have, and based on all that I have been gifted, I wouldn't want it to be any other way.
But I must thank you. You have given me pause, and through that I have realized just how lucky I really am.
Edit: To DeviantMoon: well said. /bowedit on 6/10/2011 by Lakotas because: Add comment