posted on Aug, 1 2004 @ 05:20 PM
one thing you might want to think about is why you say no. It could be fear, it could be lack of attraction, or, you could be a lesbian. Not trying to
worry you about it, but its a possiblity.
As for Bob not talking to you, Bob might be the one not ready for a relationship. Long story short, i fell for my best-friend(yeah i know, its already
a bad start), plus he was like that too. found out i liked him, wouldnt talk to me anymore, got really defensive when i meantioned him, etc.
You might think its different for you, but sorry hun, i really doubt it. These guys are jerks that dont know what they want, and thats how they always
(aka the finally recovered ex-friend)