posted on Jul, 3 2004 @ 09:45 PM
Yeah same thing with me, and I'm roughly around your age.
Now thing is, I have alot of hits on me, and I am flirted alot with. I like flirting with the girls that hit on me. What I did was I tried to get
something that we both liked, ( I like to use music and movies, preferablly music) and we'd talk and get friendly before going on.
One mistake, for guys to do is give their girlfreinds lingerie, never ever give her a thong or a bra. Give her something she likes, not what you want
to see her in.
One thing that helped me with my confidance was, when I was on vacation I'd flirt like hell at the pool and beach. Not to make myself sound popmpous,
but I get alot of hits at the pool side. And I'd flirt back with them, too bad we never see each other again.
Just don't be afraid. When a guy flirst with you, usually means he has his eye on you, flirt back and start talking.
Oh and it may not be a good thing for your bro to ask him out for you. Might get him think "What the hell is wrong? Why won;t she ask me out, or talk
to me?" Though it did help that he told him that u like him.
[Edited on 7-3-2004 by JediMaster]