Originally posted by Ashly
I think somethings wrong with me lol. Im fifteen and Ive never had a boyfriend. I've had a lot of guys ask me out, but I say no. Even if I like them
I say no. I dont know why!!
A) Your going through puberty so your emotions are going to be flying all over the place, your hormone's are imbalanced so thats going to # you up
When your a teenager some people don't have any balls and some people have more then they should.
You however seem to be lacking in that department, and i know it's easy for me to say get some balls but it's a totally different scenario because
it's you and your afraid of getting balls...
Fear of the unknown is what it boils down to....... You've never experienced a boyfriend before, your not sure what his reaction will be, your not
sure how well you would handle the situation so your afraid to even dip your hand into the water so to speak, your not sure if it will be cold or
Best thing to do in this scenario is to feel him out, you already have a pretty good idea he likes you... That is: GOOD....
Good stuff, so you've felt the water and it's fine... He likes you..
So now that you've figured out he likes you too, then the best thing for you to do is grab some tennis balls stick em in your pants... (Now you have
walk over to him and say " look, I like you , your fun to hang around with, your funny, your smart, and I like those qualities so let's hang out!
here's my number if you want to go work out together sometime or catch a flick..
We have fun together so let's do it outside of school....
You can paraphrase that if you like...
All i'm sayin girl is that if you kknow the water is warm, jump the # in already!