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Originally posted by kalisdad
I'm going to call BS on that one...
case in point.
as I said earlier, my wife works fulltime.
I watched her daughter during the day, and worked parttime at night to cover my half of the bills...
I quit my night job when I came home the Thursday before Christmas, to her passed out having a siezure on the floor.
now, despite the fact that for the 1st year of our relationship, I not only covered my half of the bills, but also saved her 40% of her weekly income in childcare costs, everyone, our neighbors, her entire family, and all our friends see it as I am using her. I am the bad guy for not working while she works 9 hours a day. I still watch her daughter daily, and I can't find a day job becausse she can't afford to put her daughter into childcare.
but if it was the other way around, and I worked fulltime while she stay home with my child, it would be completely socially acceptable that I worked while she stayed at home.
there is no equality in this scenario, I know first hand that fact.
I WANT to work, but with the current situation, I am not able to... and because of that, I am looked down apon by EVERYONE.
Ok Edrick putting aside our differences
Agreed.
why do you edit your posts in the way you do?
I do this, because most posts that I respond to, are in fact SEVERAL different points all smashed together in one giant unending wall of text that makes several assertions, assumptions, statements, and hypothesis in the entire span of the paragraph.
Because of the nature of the communications medium that we are using, a simple reply to your whole block of text would not allow me to respond to each argument and assertion that is made.
This is the reason that I break apart peoples posts... it is to make absolutely SURE that they know EXACTLY which point of theirs that I am responding to.
This is an attempt to prevent communication mistakes, and ease the flow of information from one mind to another.
They're all the same and it gives people a headache trying to wade through it, i'm not alone on this one. The formatting is insane and stretched out.
I understand completely... I assure you, that they are not that much more pleasant to write.
But, it is a more efficient way of communicating without misunderstanding, miscommunication, etc...
I can only imagine you do this to prevent people replying.
On the contrary... I desire replies Greatly!
I apologize for any inconvenience that you may be suffering due to the nature of my preferred method of expressing my perspective.
I assure you, that it is not "Sexism" or a deliberate attack.
IT is only a structure of words that is designed to make you think.
Which is what communication is all about.
Originally posted by Edrick
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Originally posted by Edrick
reply to post by ImaginaryReality1984
Well, if you would prefer that I reply to your U2U's on the Board, then by all means:
Originally posted by ImaginaryReality1984
Firstly yuo are applying your situation to every other person, maybe you just have a rather intolerant set of friends and family. Have you explained any of this to them? Secondly we are only getting your side of the story here, if it is exactly as you say then yep it's a shame they think that. Although if they do think that maybe you should be asking your wife to correct them, coming from her maybe it would carry more weight. Finally how do you know this, have they said it directly to you?
Having said all of that it really doesn't matter, you were working part time and so have disproven your whole point. You can always do the adult thing, not care what anyone thinks about the situation.
Originally posted by kalisdad
do you really think that the majority of the world would see it any differently??
yes, there would be people that understand the situation, but in my case I'm not talking about 1 or 2 members of her family, or friends... I'm talking everyone...
and yes, we've both tried to explain the situation to them all many times... it doesn't stop the snide remarks they make at my expence, or the insulting tone they use when they ask me if I am working yet.
I'm sure that any woman that has stayed home with children know that its a job. now consider the fact that its not even my child.
I seriously doubt that I am the only male in this situation, experiencing this kind of treatment.
in my case though, the people aren't ashamed to say whats on thier mind.
Oh, for God's sake! So what? Is that some sort of threat? Do you think I care if you get angry? Get angry, turn red, go nuts. If you weren't so cryptic, perhaps people would understand you better.........
.....Then you should be able to show the data that proves that.
Look. Let me just say that your posts are VERY difficult to weed through and understand. Don't blame the other members for your communication issues. You're the one getting ANGRY! Using lots of CAPS, large type, and generally getting ***EMOTIONAL!!*** Not to mention condescending and sarcastic. I'm not sure why any of us are talking with you to tell you the truth...
BS. The government isn't all about the military and defense.
Voting isn't just about the military. Your whole argument is military-centric.
Voting is a right of ALL US adult citizens
whether they serve on the military or not. Like it or not, that's the way it is and should be.
Darlin'?
You were asked several pages back about the equation 3+2=7-2. But for some reason, you never responded.
Why are you so completely hung up on the word?
The studies that proclaim a gender gap are comparing men and women who have the same experience, same job, skills, etc.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by Edrick
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Why are we even trying to have a rational debate with a person with such an archaic and irrational mindset? IR1984, good luck. You're on your own.
ImaginaryReality1984:
Men are better suited to fighting, women can stay home and man the factories. This isn't sexist it's just the most effective way of using the people, utilizing their skills.
Edrick:
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Because that is the most effective role for most all women.
Originally posted by HarmonicNights
This article explains how feminism was created to destabilize society:
educate-yourself.org...
Originally posted by andy1033
My view on all this is roll on getting rid of the female gender, and get humans to be 1 single gender.
I have no problem females wanting to be equal, that means one day we will have one single gender, and they will be gone, as most of there role will be replaced.
So let them have there time in the sun, one day it will be over for the female gender i reckon.
Personally i could not care less.
Almost immediately, showing great determination and fearlessness, she assembled armed volunteers to assist Governor Calvert's forces in suppressing the Claiborne Rebellion upon his return from Virginia in August, 1646.[2] He appointed her his executrix while on his death bed on June 9, 1647,[2] with Letters of Administration granted on June 19, 1647.
The story of DNA is a tale of competition and intrigue, told one way in James Watson's book The Double Helix, and quite another in Anne Sayre's study, Rosalind Franklin and DNA. James Watson, Francis Crick, and Maurice Wilkins received a Nobel Prize for the double-helix model of DNA in 1962, four years after Franklin's death at age 37 from ovarian cancer.
It was in Randall's lab that she crossed paths with Maurice Wilkins. She and Wilkins led separate research groups and had separate projects, although both were concerned with DNA. When Randall gave Franklin responsibility for her DNA project, no one had worked on it for months. Wilkins was away at the time, and when he returned he misunderstood her role, behaving as though she were a technical assistant.
But Franklin persisted on the DNA project. J. D. Bernal called her X-ray photographs of DNA, "the most beautiful X-ray photographs of any substance ever taken." Between 1951 and 1953 Rosalind Franklin came very close to solving the DNA structure. She was beaten to publication by Crick and Watson in part because of the friction between Wilkins and herself. At one point, Wilkins showed Watson one of Franklin's crystallographic portraits of DNA.
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Nanye'hi saw her husband die in a battle with Creek Indians. She took up her husband's bow and arrow and led her Cherokee tribe to victory. Nancy Ward, as Americans called her, was named "Beloved Woman" by the tribe, and made the head of the Women's Council and a member of the Council of Chiefs.
Robert Shirtliffe enlisted in the 4th Massachusetts Regiment in 1778. Except, his name wasn't Robert and he wasn't a man.
Originally posted by HarmonicNights
This article explains how feminism was created to destabilize society:
educate-yourself.org...
The problem is men like you are so busy that you are trying to prove that men are better that you can't even see straight.
I tried to join the military, but I was told I wasn't fit enough despite being able to bench my own weight.
I tried to join the park service, but despite modern technology, they required you to lift a hundred pounds over your head. Clearly designed to keep smaller stature people out.
A cheap tool would of allowed me to do it.
I used to play paintball, I have a lethal shot. While some men asked me to be on their team, others challenged me over and over and over to prove they were a better mark then me. They couldn't handle it.
It is all about ego.
Your anger is directed at a sex who is held back by ego
because your pissed you were forced to do something you didn't want to do.
So you make yourself feel better by saying that sex is weaker and not capable.
You say that women only have rights because men defend them. That it is military blah blah blah.
The military isn't the only defense group. Teh police, state troopers, and fire fighters are defense groups.
And I know plenty of tiny female officers who can pin a huge, disorderly male biker in seconds.
You think women can't defend theh homefront?
Plenty of women throughout history have defended the homefront while men are fighting off wars that men started for stupid reasons.
Margaret Brent
Almost immediately, showing great determination and fearlessness, she assembled armed volunteers to assist Governor Calvert's forces in suppressing the Claiborne Rebellion upon his return from Virginia in August, 1646.[2] He appointed her his executrix while on his death bed on June 9, 1647,[2] with Letters of Administration granted on June 19, 1647.
Funny how when it stops being HIStory, the women are involved. Imagine what could of been if women were not repressed. And Ego wasn't involved.
But keep telling yourself that women are the weaker sex and shouldn't be given equality if you makes you feel better. Because your ego demands it.