posted on Apr, 17 2010 @ 10:45 PM
actually how is a guy supposed to just muster up the confidence to talk to a girl he has pretty much no business talking to out of the blue when they
make themselves out to be very unapproachable? Yes I'm saying women always have this impenetratable shield that only either deceptive tactics could
get through or dominating tactics until she 'submits', because they always say that they have to be Captive to some domineering set of traits that
pretty much make them unable to act in free will.
The fact is, it's hjard for a guy to just walk up to a girl and say hello when the only reason he might want to is because she looks like she would
be great in bed. Oh and did I mention she would also have a great personality, in bed? It's not that I dont care about your personality. In fact I
care more about personality than anything else, but I do have needs too. And even when you say you want a sweet guy who cares for you, what you say
and what you do are 9 times out of 10 very different. Because you say you are proud to go on feelings, and not be logical about anything whatsoever.
Even if it's wrong and deceptive. You don't. You want a Badass. As innocent as you may want to portray it, you don't really want anything else but
the badass, and the brute. At least that's what my reality has shown me. Either that or purely superficial qualities, which will amount to
badassness. What you want is violence. You want men who violently dominate other men. You are attracted to brutality. I've seen it time and time
again.
Yea, so please women, help us out. When we are labelled criminals, jerks, douchebags, dogs, perverts, etc. for being human and respecting women, then
you go out with some brash hardcore gangster who doesn't care about you or doesn't care if you are offended by his dirty jokes which if coming from
a guy who actually does care would be offensive and perverse, even if he said something way less 'offensive and perverse' than the brute who get's
his ass kissed.
When the media portrays to you that good men are no longer any good, and that only the brute who steps on other's heads get the women, that you have
to be evil to succed it's kind of hard. It's kinda of hard, knowing that your kind, being that you are a free thinker can't fit in with society
because it takes one to be evil to succeed. Or that we need to be materialistic and selfish and egoist.
No offense. It's not just because we don't ask you out. It's just that in spite of all the above I said, you expect us to do ALL the work from
initiating a simple conversation because you want to test how "brave we are in not caring whether we come off as sexually aggressive" or how bad we
can be with you to test how far you can go to do us wrong, and providing you with the entire world because you bore yourself. You test us
unecessarily, and for things that would in the end not matter vs the things that really do matter. You want to come up with a million ideas and
categorize us because all of your lives you've been judging us to no end because you feel you have a right to either breed us in or out of existence
or to abominate us, and have us outcast.
Guess what rules now? It seems that evil rules. Evil runs this darwinist society of kill or be killed. Man against man, for what, in the end? To allow
for replication. And you are impressed by brutal competition.
But us men never suffer, we're not allowed to. We're not allowed to show it either, therefore any problems become hidden under the mat. If we show
that we have any imperfection we are up for a most cruel dehumanizing demise and we are outcast.
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I'm very sorry. I'm just really hurt. I'm probably going to end up being a lifelong celibate and alone because the times we are in are just too
damn crazy for a "different kind of person" like me who's expected to be everything I haven't been able to thus yet.
I may just be forever scarred.
[edit on 17-4-2010 by The Quiet Storm]