posted on Dec, 20 2009 @ 02:32 AM
What about the effects of a negative relationship?
Mind over mater? I think this is true, but what effect does it have on you then, when your significant other expresses an atmosphere of doom?
I have had in my life many many relationships, the person that I am with now seems to be unable to exist for a day without being extremely negative.
Of course I was attracted to her because she was hot, and very accomplished. But of late she seems to be in an almost eternal state of despair. As a
student of The Law of Attraction and somebody who left the Jesuit Priesthood I have witnessed things that are clear to me, and yet I can not convince
I believe she has an amazing ability to influence her environment directly. An example would be when she believed that our house was haunted, she
would close doors and turn off lights, and then later go up to check and the doors would be opened and the lights turned on. I have personally seen
this happen. When she is adamant that things will go wrong, things will break. I have seen her in her hopeless rants only to result in some major
appliance breaking a few hours later.
I have seen rolling breakages happen almost daily, gutters getting ripped off by the wind, the dryer motor breaking, the central heating system
breaking, the water heater breaking, her car breaking down, and every step of the way she curses our life and how bad things are the only
Of course I have tried to for years convince her that things like this are possibly a manifestation of her anticipation for the negative, and of
course she thinks I'm a flake who does not understand how bad things are.
It's really wearing on me. How can I move to higher ground while several hours of my day consist of listening to someone telling me how impossible it
is to be comfortable and happy?
She has gotten herself so worked up that she dwells on stress and anticipating negative events, and when I see appliances and other things in our home
die behind every crazy rant, I can't help but think that it may have something to do with the negativity she broadcasts.
I would like to hear other opinions and especially opinions from people who have lived in similar relationships.
That's what I'm beginning to wonder about at this time in my life. Could this actually be a manifestation to that degree?
Could this all be something that I actually could change? Change through only myself, without trying to change the world. Is this literally a separate
reality that I have the power to manipulate?