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reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 09:01 AM by azzllin
I was once told, when you get married , put a pillow case on the bottom of the bed, and every time you make love, add a stone to the case, do this for a year, then the next year every time you make love, remove a stone, what is left in the case is an indication of boredom in your marriage or sex life if you will.

Anyhow, I do get some of the OP points, however, not everyone is the same, in fact you would be hard pushed to find any two people with exactly the same wants, needs, or interest, I'm certain there are aspects of the Porn industry which are nasty and immoral, that is to say what is revulsion to you or me, is not for others, I have lost friends because of some video or other they had on their phone, I just didn't or wouldn't accept someone being shot in the head as being funny or entertaining, yet it is classed as Pornography because of the content and nakedness or acts involved, sure it was all fake but still not acceptable to me, because they hung around with my family and kids, and really I don't want that kind of personality around me at anytime.

So it comes down to the individual, to often we have heard the excuse, I only downloaded child porn for research, or I disagree with porn, I've watched a lot of it to see what it was about and I think its disgusting ETC, if that was true you wouldn't have gotten past the first 5 mins of any tape, never mind watching several tapes or video's.

Like everything else, in moderation it has its place, but while there is demand for the really sick crap, then there will always be a supplier, the way I see it is, the more perverted, the harder to find, the harder people look, and there are a lot of really sick depraved people out there.

I cant comment on the actors, because I don't know any, but I do firmly believe it has a place, even if it is just to keep those who didnt have access to this material from going and hurting someone, through porn they have an outlet without the harm to others, like prostitution, if it didnt exist, would people go out and rape to satisfy their urges?

A lot of it needs to be banned, and the rest of it is needed, where to draw the line? because someone looks like they are in pain does not mean they are not having fun.



reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 09:05 AM by Telos
reply to post by cybertroy



One of the best threads I've read recently. S/F and you've got my props for this. As human beings we follow our instincts and sex is one of them but for all of us who sometimes like to watch porn, this thread should be a strong reminder that what is enjoyable for us as watchers, is so painful and humiliating for the performers. If there is no buying force then this industry will cease to exist. In this crazy times we live at all of us wait for the change to come from skies. We pray to God, ask for help, ask for mercy without realizing that in each of us there is a force that can make the change. And all together can stop this madness called pornography. Now and on every time I'll see a porn scene I'll have in mind the words I have read in those links posted by cybertroy. And I know it wouldn't be the same and actually it shouldn't. It so far from being human building your pleasures over other humans sufferance and pain.


reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 09:52 AM by crmanager
reply to post by cybertroy



You have completely ruined my Saturday night.

Porn is demeaning to everyone involved but we have people on this site saying you would be simply a religious right-wing hate mongering... for pushing your thoughts on them.

Good post.


reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 10:17 AM by drock905
Originally posted by cybertroy
optyk phyba,

They don't give a damn? What does that tell you? What kind of person doesn't give a damn about people?

Sexual boredom, people doing bizarre things for pleasure. It boils down to this, you are probably having/had troubles with your relationships and troubles with yourself if you have to be overly rough, abusive, or take abuse to get your jollies off. Of course the Psychiatrist says, "Oh, we're all different in our desires." Instant justification for downright crazy stuff. Some people do freakin' things like cut and mutilate themselves to "get off." That's how insane sex has become to some people.

Let me clarify things with my history in porn watching. I don't recall anything really all that good coming from watching porn. The times I have watched it, many times, I have not been a good person to be around. I have taken paths I shouldn't have taken. Desires became more bizarre. The more I watched, the more I got into weirder stuff.

Porn was something I sometimes turned to get my fix, so I could feel some "happiness." It gave me a "fix," you might say, usually followed by regret. Porn did nothing to help me. It just helped dig the hole deeper.

I know what I have seen in those films, facial expressions don't lie. Some of those girls did not want to be in those films.

Porn desensitizes you, the more you watch it, the more you can become desensitized. Before you know it, the most insane things seem "normal."

I can no longer go back to porn, I would be supporting outright insanity, doing so.

I am building more and more love and respect for my fellow man (and ladies), and they love me back. Porn isn't love. Porn many times shows a hatred toward women. It's unacceptable as entertainment.

I'm as horny as the next guy, believe me, but porn doesn't belong in my sex life anymore.

Troy

[edit on 13-1-2009 by cybertroy]


It sounds like your looking for something in porn that isnt there.

A lot of people dont like their jobs. Im sure in the porn world there are many who dont either.

For all the porn degrading women there is just as much degrading men. Like any other business they produce what people want, no matter how kinky/weird you think it is. The actors know what they are signing up for. They get paid money for doing a relative easy job. Sure there are drug addicts in the industry but im positive there are people on drugs or drunks where you work. Whats the difference?

Just because it involves sex you have a bias against it.

I really dont see the big deal.


reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 10:30 AM by noonebutme
reply to post by cybertroy



Nope. You're being far too righteous. Porn isn't bad so long as :

1) No one is being hurt (more than they ask for!)
2) No one is doing anything aganist their will or doing anything to someone against their will.

So long as those ideals are being maintained, what's the problem? Porn is great! It's healthy, fun, and great to watch.

As for the people in the industry, of course there are those who ARE abused or forced into it by nefarious means. Sure there are people in it who abuse others -- but that's no different than other social situations like families with alcholics, abusers, etc. I'm not justifying that behaviour -- merely saying it exists everywhere are is not isolated to porn, nor does porn make it happen elsewhere.

Also, there's LOADS of people in porn who DO love it and do profit from it and have no qualms with the work they do.

At the end of the day, it is just a job. It has nothing to do with "love" or whatever else you were bleating on about in your moan. Porn's good!



reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 10:36 AM by DCPatriot
reply to post by cybertroy



When you watch a porn, this is what you pretty much see, a pretty smiling girl covered in man goo. She smiles, but much of the time it's fake. You think she enjoys this. You don't see the pain, well actually you might if you actually took the time to look at some of the girls faces, or in their eyes, when they momentarily are "out of character." You can see pain, maybe even emotions like fear. I actually noticed this in some of the films in the past.


Doing research, huh?
This is not a one line post.


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