posted on Jan, 13 2009 @ 09:01 AM
I was once told, when you get married , put a pillow case on the bottom of the bed, and every time you make love, add a stone to the case, do this for
a year, then the next year every time you make love, remove a stone, what is left in the case is an indication of boredom in your marriage or sex life
if you will.
Anyhow, I do get some of the OP points, however, not everyone is the same, in fact you would be hard pushed to find any two people with exactly the
same wants, needs, or interest, I'm certain there are aspects of the Porn industry which are nasty and immoral, that is to say what is revulsion to
you or me, is not for others, I have lost friends because of some video or other they had on their phone, I just didn't or wouldn't accept someone
being shot in the head as being funny or entertaining, yet it is classed as Pornography because of the content and nakedness or acts involved, sure it
was all fake but still not acceptable to me, because they hung around with my family and kids, and really I don't want that kind of personality
around me at anytime.
So it comes down to the individual, to often we have heard the excuse, I only downloaded child porn for research, or I disagree with porn, I've
watched a lot of it to see what it was about and I think its disgusting ETC, if that was true you wouldn't have gotten past the first 5 mins of any
tape, never mind watching several tapes or video's.
Like everything else, in moderation it has its place, but while there is demand for the really sick crap, then there will always be a supplier, the
way I see it is, the more perverted, the harder to find, the harder people look, and there are a lot of really sick depraved people out there.
I cant comment on the actors, because I don't know any, but I do firmly believe it has a place, even if it is just to keep those who didnt have
access to this material from going and hurting someone, through porn they have an outlet without the harm to others, like prostitution, if it didnt
exist, would people go out and rape to satisfy their urges?
A lot of it needs to be banned, and the rest of it is needed, where to draw the line? because someone looks like they are in pain does not mean they
are not having fun.