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reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 02:42 AM by HiAliens
Rev2012! I accidentally U2U'd you... I meant to post this publically...Dnt worry, I've watched plenty of vids in my time, just grown out of it...

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Yep, some get paid really good money.

Have you read any of the stories in the link? A lot of them do suffer.

At the bottom end of the scale girls are getting like 150-200 a scene and are desparate. Max hardcore should be in gaol. And it is as bad as cancer because AIDS is rampant in the industry, not to metion all sorts of other diseases.

Good luck to your friend. If s/he could dip in and out quick that's fine. No pun intended.

I actually don't have a problem with porn *in theory*. It's been around for millenia. If someone wants to exhibit themselves, or document non-abusive sex between two (or three) people then that's fine, it's art. It's just in practice it's not working out like that. Disease, abuse and exploitation are rife.

EDIT: I agree 100 per cent asmall89. I think if something is tasteful that's fine. Who am I to judge if something's tasteful? No one. It's subjective. But abusive behaviour and exploitation can be judged more objectively.
I've watched plenty of porn myself. I stopped A) because I read articles like the one posted above. B) I'm actually behind the Chinese firewall now, most porn isn't let through. It's actually really refreshing. I'm glad I don't waste time watching that crap any more. It's bad for the spirit. There's nothing wrong at all with looking at the natural beauty of hawt models though.


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reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 03:52 AM by XXXN3O
Originally posted by cybertroy
Let me clarify things with my history in porn watching. I don't recall anything really all that good coming from watching porn. The times I have watched it, many times, I have not been a good person to be around. I have taken paths I shouldn't have taken. Desires became more bizarre. The more I watched, the more I got into weirder stuff.

Porn was something I sometimes turned to get my fix, so I could feel some "happiness." It gave me a "fix," you might say, usually followed by regret. Porn did nothing to help me. It just helped dig the hole deeper.

I can no longer go back to porn, I would be supporting outright insanity, doing so.

I am building more and more love and respect for my fellow man (and ladies), and they love me back. Porn isn't love. Porn many times shows a hatred toward women. It's unacceptable as entertainment.
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Let me be the first and I might be the only one to say. Well done and well said.

Takes a lot to say something like you have but most will not understand.

We live in a world of id say 75% zombie like so people in all areas of life, if you get me.

This site is meant to be about finding out the facts but despite the facts we still have people saying its fine.

Welcome to humanity.

Sometimes being right makes the problem worse, not better.

I do agree with other posts stating that Pornography is part of a much larger problem.

Pat on the back OP.



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reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 04:12 AM by detachedindividual
reply to post by cybertroy



I'm sorry but I fail to see how a person becoming extremely wealthy doing something enjoyable is bad.

This is all about personal choice.

I might choose to smoke, I might choose to drink, I might choose to watch porn.
We all make choices in our lives and if we're not happy we change things. From what I see of the porn industry, the majority of those within it are having fun, are happy, are making a lot of money.

If they choose to take drugs, so be it, it's their body. If they choose to have dangerous sex, so be it, it's their body.
While I may not agree with the choices some people make, as long as it isn't affecting others negatively, it's their choice.

I've had sexual partners who enjoy porn. It was fun, it didn't damage our friendship/relationship at all, it was an enjoyable aspect of a healthy sex life. So what applies to one group of people doesn't actually mean that everyone is the same.
Maybe I've been lucky in my choice of partners, but none of them have had any radical view of porn, just like me they see a lot of people doing a job they enjoy and making a lot of money for it.

I think this comes down to one thing, just because you don't imagine how a person can enjoy something doesn't mean that they are being coerced, forced or convinced in some way.

An on the "unnatural" comment, unnatural doesn't exist. If it did, it wouldn't be unnatural as it couldn't "exist in nature" if it were. Nothing is unnatural, only "unacceptable" based on social or personal belief.


reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 07:17 AM by Evisscerator
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Thanks for posting this. Its about time someone spoke out.

I'm now single, my ex's (both of them) went off cheating like little floating dandylions and didn't give a crap about me or our relationship.

I admit that l watch some porn. I know its not exactly healthy for one to do so, but a guy needs a vent from all that pent up testosterone we accumulate. I don't have a girlfriend yet and so I'm stuck with my only means of visual reminders.

With 2012 stuff coming at us at light speed, I doubt I'll find myself in the sack with a buxxom chick anytime soon.


reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 07:32 AM by Solarskye
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Porn is trash and the people who watch it aren't looking to grow from it. Not mentally anyway. The thing that gets me about porn is that these stars as you call them put themselves in these situations and say they need the money or just want the fame. They can easily leave the industry just the same as they entered. It's a choice that one makes but then later complains about it. Just like drugs, alcohol or a low paying job. They should of gotten a life in the first place or made better choices.


reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 07:41 AM by munkey66
Porn is great.
It doesn't in anyway teach the young that love means that she will do anything you want.
It doesn't matter that school girls are having multiple partners to be popular due to the sex education the males and some females get from the net.
It in no way harms people who have been put on the internet because of a bit of fun they had during a relationship that ended and he/she decided to get revenge and post their home movie.
It doesn't hurt that in a lot of cases these actors have left home due to abuse and needed money to survive and then feed their drug habit they took up to ease the pain.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy watching more erotica type adult entertainment than hard porn.
I mean, there is just something that isn't there, I watched all types when younger and even dated a stripper, that was when my eyes where truley opened.
She wasn't easy, she didn't sleep around, but what she did know is that men will pay big money to see a set of boobs that you could see at the beach for free, she also knew that if she promised to show more if the money came out, the money always came out.

so watching her strip was fun, but watching guys hand over hard earned money for a look at her body which they would never touch was even more fun.

so people out there who really enjoy your porn, because at the end of the night, you are either with a person you love that you can hold, or you are looking at what you think a woman should be,
but if you are thinking about the porn star when with your partner, remember that she may be thinking of someone else too.

I prefer to know I am with my wife because I love her, not because she will perform strange acts you see on the net.



reply posted on 13-1-2009 @ 08:29 AM by Waldy
This is from Shelley Lubben´s bio, found here.

Despite the fact that women do not enjoy making porn movies, they continue to lie to their fans and proudly insist they enjoy making porn movies. Of course they do. They get paid hundreds and thousands of dollars to lie because this is their occupation. Porn stars are paid professional liars who know how to "act" and they do it well. In fact, because porn stars spend a great deal of time in front of the camera and never step out of character, they usually have greater acting abilities than mainstream Hollywood actors.

I used to brag endlessly to fans and pornographers about my extreme "Italian" sex drive and how I loved making porn movies. I would go on and on about how I needed more and more to fulfill my insatiable appetite. I lied 100% of the time to 100% of the people. Lying is the native language of porn stars because they can't afford to tell you the truth. Not only would it ruin the fantasy for their fans but more importantly, it would ruin the amount of their paychecks. Don't believe porn actresses when they proudly proclaim they enjoy making porn movies. They're ACTING.


Hundreds and thousands of dollars

No wonder so man young people join the industry...fame, fortune, parties and sex is what they are after. Im sure many manage to stay clean from drug abuse and STD´s during their "career" but the wast majority ends up damaged for life if they survive.
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