George, thanks for posting this. I get the impression that you and I have a similar approach to banking and money.
I'm not sure why, or where it came from, but I have always had an absolute dislike for credit cards and debt. I don't like borrowing from people, so
maybe that's where it stems from. But regardless, I avoid debt as much as I possibly can. I do have a debit/credit card for when I happen to run out
of cash in my pocket and I just cannot wait to make a purchase. However, in those cases I am not pulling credit, I'm tapping into my checking
account.
Let's face it, we live in a society where spending money is fashionable. Credit is just a phone call away. Unless you're pulling in a very nice
paycheck every week and have plenty of money left over after taking care of essential expenses, then it takes an unusual mentality and some self
control to be able to live without relying on credit. For some it might even require a change in lifestyle.
I have a simple rule - that works. If I don't have the money in my pocket - I don't spend it! An I don't care if my neighbor has a better phone, a
better car or a better suite - If i can't afford it - I can't! - I have to wait, make some savings and then buy it.
I second that rule. It works when you really want it to. Again, it's all about the mentality taken towards money and borrowing. If you want to be
free, don't borrow. If you're in debt, do everything can to pay it off as soon as possible.
I've only had one type of borrowing credit card that I felt comfortable using. I decided to purchase some furniture locally at one of the chain
furniture stores. They were offering 0% interest for a year. So I could put the cost of the purchase on the credit card they gave me, pay it off in a
year, and not worry about any interest. Deal! But here's the thing. I KNEW I could pay it off in time.
Well, those are my somewhat jumbled thoughts on this topic. I really hope people start taking a different, less dependent approach to how they deal
with money. All it really takes is self control and some responsibility. And once you get used to it, knowing that you're able to work with what you
earned and not borrowed...that is a wonderful feeling.