posted on Oct, 15 2008 @ 07:01 PM
Why do men complain about what needy, nutso, irritating things women are and always go for the most clearly needy, nutso, self-absorbed women?
When men try to be "nice guys", it usually shows as either superficial or pandering. Neither is attractive. But I don't like men who don't call,
belittle me (especially in public), cheat on me, or don't pay attention to what I need or want.
What's most attractive (to me, a lot of my female friends think my taste in men is wierd) is a guy who is a little rough around the edges, makes it
clear that he's interested in both my brain and my body, makes me laugh (and yes, really, that's the most important – and I can have a pretty
raunchy sense of humor), and sometimes shows me the sweet tender side that he doesn't show the rest of the world.
Example: biker dude who dotes on his little niece. That is just really sexy.