reply to post by Super Slovak
Most women I know or have known are not necessarily looking for a nice guy. They are looking for a man. Do you understand what that is Super
Women ..no matter what they claim like a variety ..to look at and study. Some of them even a variety with which to play and occupy. Has it ever
occurred to you that women are also "Hunter Gatherers" too?? Do not underestimate their ability to achieve their goals through tools/skills which
are unknown or unperceptive to you. As I have stated several times in other posts. Just because a woman does not hunt and gather as does a man ...does
not mean she is not doing so. They can hunt and gather by elimination just as efficient if not more so than do men.
What it is to which most women respond instinctively..is confidence in a man..not trying out with desperation. Women..most of them can.. spot a
desperate man quickly ..an unconfident man...like radar in the dark..from miles away. The more desperate you appear or are sensed by them the more at
variance they will be with your goals or intentions. It is instinctive with most of them. It appears you have problems grasping this concept. They
will tend to shy away from a man who is so obviously "trying out." for their approval.
These same women can also spot a confident man ..miles away in the dark like radar.
A man who is trying out for their approval in desperation is one who can be used by them for various goals or things, if they so choose , but not one
in which they will invest much of their time or intimacy. They sense that at some level these men will be to high maintenance for them. To needy.
Also Super Slovak..don't worry about being rude in staring at their chest. Women stare at a lot of things male. They are just more discrete at it
than males but they stare nonetheless. They can also take in more informations about a male with a single scan or glance than can most males with
women. Its a woman thing. In this subtilty they are light years ahead of most men.
Confidence Super Slovak means you know how to grow a pair between your legs..not the appearance of a pair..by trying out. Understand?? You have
substance to you ..not show.
Oh..and being nice and trying out for approval often means the woman is in control..ie..you are not leading. Once again meaning no confidence.
Lead...you know..like in dancing!!??
Silverflame gives good advice..don't give up.. but learn to refine your skills..particularly your thinking ability about the real nature of things
out here among the wildlife. Yes ..don't be rude or uncivil...but learn to be confident in the skills you have and learn to develop new ones. No
Slovak..this is a really dumb statement here from page 1 of this thread.
So women like guys who don't like them huh? Now I can see why some guys turn gay. How am I supposed to tell a girl I like her if she wants
me not to like her?
It shows desperation and powerlessness...weakness...unconfidence. It shows frustration. Are you catching on yet?? This statement is also not
AmericanDingbat has a valid point here...
Someone in another post called many of these types Trophy women. Not much of a trophy to me if they have all this baggage.
Why do men complain about what needy, nutso, irritating things women are and always go for the most clearly needy, nutso, self-absorbed
Must be something wrong with me. I am not into buxom brain dead types. Especially Buxom. I am a man of "modest tastes." Brain dead to me is just
high maintenance. And drama queens..no thanks here either. I like a certain level of confidence and knowledge in a woman.
Hey..did I tell you that there is a shop down the street from me that makes Tee Shirts. I am thinking of getting one made that says...
" I'm a Victim..I'm a Victim"
Perhaps Super Slovak needs one as well. Maybe two or three.
On the serious side...something pleasant happened to me last week when opening the door for a woman coming out of a store. This woman looked at me
with a big smile and said..Thank you..not many men do that for women anymore. I smiled back at her and said "Your Welcome Ma am and Thank You!!
It reminded me of what you stated sometime back in the "woman's survival " thread to the effect that not many men today exhibit the virtues of
our fathers and grandfathers time towards women. I thanked you silently after this experience.
Thanks to all for thier posts,
[edit on 19-10-2008 by orangetom1999]