reply to post by blueorder
But we can at least
learn.
Just Iike I was a child growing up at home. Learning how to behave and respect people in the world as I learn behaviours around me. As a teenager you
rebel against your parents, as you get older and wiser. You learn what work's and what doesn't. You learn from your history growing up that,
violence and aggression does
Not give you peace, growth, respect and learning. It doesn't show you are in control of yourself. Violence and
aggression doesn't cause harmony with your parent's and people around you and You are not peace with yourself.
For example on a personal level in conflict, retailating and behaving in a violent matter towards your parents, friends and people around you,
I ask you, what happens when you behave like this?
Does this actually solve conflict in your own personal experience? Does it create peace within? Does it create harmony around you?
Learning how to deal with conflict, how to be
adult about these situations, learning from previous mistakes to make the future better.
This is what makes an Adult.
Whether it's personal, public, or on a national level. How de we solve conflict on every level.
How do I solve conflict at home, work, or in Iraq
and most importantly how do I solve conflict within?
People who
abuse this power on a national level, because they have not learned to be at peace within, they
have notsolved or learnt from
history. They have not learned respect. So this unacceptable behaviour
continues and continues and historys keeps writing our history books,
till one day we learn, this does is not working.
we need to learn now.
There will always be conflict, yes of course, but that doesn't
mean that there always have to be wars for it. Conflict challenges what we are.
It helps us learn about our differences. It does not
mean we have to repeat the same conflict and patterns. It does not mean we have to kill
each other for our differences. It does not mean we have to lose control and force our will on others to prove we are better or more self righteous.
We can be in control, we can deal with conflict's in the
right way diplomatically.
The wars such as in Iraq does
not ever have to happen at all. These wars are created
purposely for money, abuse of power and other
selfish reasons, for then benifet people in power, in order compensate the lack of peace and harmony they dont have in their lives.
There is a big difference blueorder. There are conflicts of interacial issues, like have a long bloody history, and takes decades if not centuries to
heal in it's own course of time. There are wars that have complicated history, but given time heals the wounds of the past. Interacial, ethinic,
terroritorial and historic conflicts will always play conflict in our lives. Constantly
challenge what we are. But it's how we
deal
with them is what dictates what will happen out of all it.
But There are
other wars,
There they are countries such as the
Super powers of today invading and taking over other countries for the reason's I've explained the above
paragraphs. These wars are the ones we need to
stop. The march of Rome is and was yesterday. This pattern does not work in today's world
anymore. Today's world is about
freedom.
People are free to travel and go to any nation or culture as they wish. We don't live in the rules of the British empire or Rome anymore or the
American government playing these tricks anymore either.
These regimes are
impeding us. They created the bloodiest of wars where the empires marched and invaded other countries for more power etc,
they ruled everything you do and everthing there will be. They will never stop if you keep giving your power to them.
We are free today. We are not against each other and we are not ruled by somebody. We don't have to fight for our freedoms anymore.
This does not fit today's world. For example America invading Iraq, is classic rome syndrome as I call it. Abuse of power and thirst for more
power.
Despite the war's throughout history.
Humanity has evolved, our wars have changed. Our methods in dealing with conflict has changed. Our
understanding of ourselves have changed and improved. Our understanding of our world has drastically changed. Our communication between each other has
taken many leaps Diplomacy is a method we have successfully used, and is more widely used in conflicts. Something history can prove to us.
So don't always say never. Humanity is
evolving for the better. This is my point, the days of Rome are history. The fall of Rome was
eminent. Why repeat these mistake's today/ Why continue the thinking that America wil be the Rome of today? invading and conquering, i.e the
true superpower etc. The British Empire fell too, why are we holding onto it. Why are we not learning from history istead of repeating it over and
over.
There will be one day in the distance future where humanity will be
united as one. It will be along time, but it
will come.
Don't write thing in stones. The world is what we make of it.
[edit on 15-10-2008 by mind is the universe]
[edit on 15-10-2008 by mind is the universe]