How "the law of attraction" works, page 1
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Topic started on 12-1-2008 @ 02:05 PM by Skyfloating
I see quite a few threads on the recently popularized "law of attraction", "manifesting your wishes" and the movie "the secret" pop up on ATS.

I rarely respond to them since I am, professionally involved with the subject matter since many years and tend to get bored by "discussing the basics".

I have authored a number of books on the subject. I will not disclose those books here because I prefer to use ATS anonymously and not as an author of "law of attraction" subjects (except for this thread).

Being a author about and teacher of the subject since more than a decade, I do welcome questions about it in this thread though. My answers will not be "channelled from a higher source", but simply straight talk from an expert on the matter.

Popular Misunderstandings of the "law of attraction"

In my opinion, there is a whole lot more to know about the subject than popular movies such as "The Secret" and "What the Bleep do we know" can show without falling away from the mainstream or becoming too lengthy. Here are some of the misconceptions that spontaneously come to mind:

"You can have everything you want"
This is such a simplified, mass-marketing-like statement that it can be said to be untrue. You cannot "have everything you want" since the mere act of wanting implies a seperation from that which is wanted. Make sense? There are billions of people wanting stuff all their lives without getting it. Id put "the law of attraction" this way: You can have everything you believe you already have". I´ll explain this in later posts.

"This is a brand new thing" and "This is a new new age thing"
Nope. Its not new at all. It used to be underground or "occult science" or "secret science". Take for example the 1930s book called "Thoughtforms" by Leadbeater/Besant (Theosophists) which teaches that thoughts can densify and become physical matter. But its even older than that. As far back as the 3rd Century kabbalists were talking about "visualizing things in order to create them" (see for example interpretations of the ancient book sefer yeritzah)

"All you have to do is visualize something for it to come true"
This is another simplification which, many will experience themselves, is not entirely correct. First of all, in the metaphysical-sciences, the purpose of visualisation is not to "make something happen", but to experience something as "already happening" and to get into a certain state-of-being, a certain frequency...which then attracts certain beneficial events. What most people do, however, is use visualisation of dreams out of a state of LACK of those dreams, in other words, in order to "make them happen some day". This is contradictory to the law of attraction though. Proper visualisation is not used to "make something happen later", but to FEEL the reality of something right now, to familiarize oneself with the overall vibe of a certain reality. Also, most only visualize a two-dimensional image in front of their forehead. This is much less effective than making the visualisation a three-dimensional, tactile, all-senses, whole-body ecstatic experience. It is not the visualisation that creates anything, but the energy/emotion/excitement which acts as a magnetic signal.

"Without action, none of this works"
This I have frequently read on forums and heard from people. However, "action" is not what the law of attraction is primarily about. If it were about taking action towards your goals, then this type of magical technique would not be magical at all but no different than the normal way of achieving something. Action is alright and action works because we have been conditioned to believe that action-towards-our-desires works, but the law-of-attraction does not necessarily require action (and if it does then only inspired action upon opportunities that present themselves after one has put creation-energy into motion). The law-of-attraction states that you get what you put out, that what you experience is a match to your overall energy-vibration. Therefore, everything you like and everything you dislike creates your overall energy-output (much of the two neutralizing each other before anything is created) and will reflect in your life experience.

"You have to think positive all the time"
The denial of ones and the worlds shadow sides has nothing to do with the real metaphysics of this and much more to do with immature and cheap variations of the law of attraction. A balanced being acknowledges negative and positve. The negative is used to learn what one truly feels/believes. Negative feelings for example, are an indicator of having strayed off one´s inner path, the path one´s soul has chosen. Without these negative feelings you would be without any sort of navigation in life, without any sort of free will to choose what is right and wrong for you. Suppressing negative feelings equals suppressing the very path to the positive side of the pendulum. What you resist will persist. The expert therefore allows and utilizes the negative while shifting to the positive (sometimes using the neutral zero-point as a stepping stone to the positive).

Of course there is much more to say on the subject. But Ive hesitated up to now because the discussion around it mostly does not involve the deeper aspects of it. I for example do not think I have to resort to "quantum physics" in order to make my metaphysics look more scholary or accepted. This is a tactic of new age marketers. I also dont like all the sensationalist trash built around it. Thats the stuff that will attract all kinds of so called "skeptics" who will rightly point out all the nonsense. I will therefore make no claims whatsoever of science, or evidence, or proof or whatever skeptics demand. The proof for the effectivity of the law of attraction lies not in measurable laboratory experiment but in first-hand-experience (which is gained by a certain amount of practice).

More to come. Questions, Comments, positive and negative, welcome.


reply posted on 12-1-2008 @ 03:27 PM by Skyfloating
reply to post by Illahee



That sounds good.

I hesitate to fix it to a certain label or product-name such as "formology" though (no matter how good it is). The reason being that I have visited, researched, looked into hundreds of groups, methods, seminars that all basically teach "the law of attraction" but try to link it to their specific name/label.


reply posted on 12-1-2008 @ 04:11 PM by scientist
reply to post by Skyfloating



thanks for this, quality post as usual. I too like studying these topics, but can't stand it when they get watered down.. then people accuse me of not believing in them, because I dont like the aforementioned watered down material.


reply posted on 12-1-2008 @ 04:30 PM by Illahee
This is my introduction to the condensed version. It has not been edited for spelling punctuation or content so it still needs some work. From here its goes to the nuts and bolts from a medical perspective.

The Science of Creation
Our next subject, is related to the act of creation or the formation of solid objects, goals, or outcomes, conceived in thought. It is the use of the Law of Love for the purpose of creation.

It can best be described as a Fully Enveloping and FEELING Love of an impersonal nature, that is focused at a goal to be obtained, and then receiving that goal in reality, as an outcome or as a three dimensional object.

Several new books and DVDs are out right now with their own spin on using the Spiritual Laws to ones own desires and self gain with no regard as to the consequences of those types of actions. This however is not a science to be used or abused the way that is being taught. Nature abhors a vacuum and when some is taken other rushes in. In modern language: As you sow, so shall you reap. Be warned.
I have received several positive outcomes using formology or creation, in testing and for positive uses. It is a primary weapon in the healing arts when used by the initiate. Not by someone who watched the secret on DVD and is trying to win the lotto with what has turned into a form of black magic. This second act is to live backwards or as we spell live backwards….evil. Be certain your cause is just and gives the Creator honor.



reply posted on 12-1-2008 @ 04:41 PM by Skyfloating
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I read your posts in another thread and understood your sentiment against cheap salesmen-talk versus metaphysics. It actually inspired me to make this thread.


reply posted on 12-1-2008 @ 04:43 PM by Darce
I find it works well to not fixate on a single desired path, but instead basically have a vague idea of your ideal future and understand that you may or may not know exactly what is best right now. Then basically have the daydream experience where you are subconsciously immersed in your desired goals, and then sort of ‘let it go’. After that I just say to myself that such a reality would be nice to attain, but I’m not so attached to it that I will not accept a more happy/meaningful future. Then I just sort of put my trust in whatever is out there knows what my heart wants and that I will feel fulfilled one way or another.

Doesn’t work wonders, but I think it is a bit safer and allows me to avoid creating some big mistakes for myself. It takes a while to really put your trust in whatever field, energy or consciousness we are interacting with. I think it pays off in the end to say ‘I really have no idea what my path of least resistance will be, but I know is that is what I want and that I am going to experience it, even by miracle.’

Great Topic, I never liked the principles of the LOA, seems a bit greedy and small minded to me. Whatever the phenomenon is that we are experiencing, it seems to tie into the Theory of Everything. Oh, and it is easier to feel that you have already attained something when you can experience such a reality in a pseudo-form, like in a daydream. Also helps if you believe that there is a field of some sort where such a reality currently exists.

Great topic!


reply posted on 12-1-2008 @ 04:44 PM by Skyfloating
reply to post by Illahee



Well, keep on writing and soon we might see your e-book. I agree with your bold-printed text.

In my personal taste I would remove the baggage of overused or "charged" vocabulary such as "black magic & white magic" or references to jesus & co...but thats a matter of personal taste. Maybe some people really do need to be addressed with words like that.


reply posted on 12-1-2008 @ 05:13 PM by Illahee
Originally posted by Skyfloating
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post by Illahee



Well, keep on writing and soon we might see your e-book. I agree with your bold-printed text.

In my personal taste I would remove the baggage of overused or "charged" vocabulary such as "black magic & white magic" or references to jesus & co...but thats a matter of personal taste. Maybe some people really do need to be addressed with words like that.


Unfortunately it is for a very limited audience and will not do more than breaking even with printing cost. Its distribution is set for mini seminars on holistic medicine and I doubt it will even be of interest to more than a small cross section in that field, if any. (I know, why even do it? And I can't answer why myself. I felt compelled to start last year so I did.)

I have been careful to quote directly from the Bible since the rest of the topics are the extremes from the bible. The laying of hands, storing of energy, raising the dead, and several others that are not aimed at the ATS folks, or in line with the very good topic you have presented. More so because its an occult text that is easy for folks to refer to, and one is usually available vs more difficult to obtain references.

Just wanted to share the little bit that was in there on the creation subject. I don't want to derail this very important topic in any way.
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