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Originally posted by geek grrl
Originally posted by jsobecky
You're missing the point. Nobody is saying that NO means YES. What we are saying is "walking down a dark alley at 3 am wearing skimpy clothing" is not the smartest thing to do.
No Becky, you're missing MY point.
In even creating an issue about what a woman is wearing, where she is, and the time it is you are meaning to lay blame.
How often does the victim of a shooting get told, well, why were you in that neighbourhood? You knew there was danger... common sense! Hello!?!
But when a woman is raped, oh, well we better look at what SHE was doing at the time it happened... let's not focus on WHY SO MANY WOMEN ARE RAPED, regardless of when and where it happens.
Originally posted by jsobecky
Now you can blame society, the gov't, and your milkman for allowing cigarettes to be sold, but the fact remains: You smoked for 20 years, despite all the warnings. This is a case where maybe you could have prevented it.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by Savonarola
You were raped as a child -
I don't know where you get that. I was not a child. I was a divorced young woman. Just FYI.
Originally posted by riley
Ridiculous. Smoking has supposedly been proven to cause cancer.. wearing skimpy clothing or being in a bad neighbourhood has NOT been proven to cause rape. Rape victims are NOT chosen for their clothing but for percieved vulnerability.. by your reasoning woolen cardigons drive men wild as even little old ladies get raped.
MYTH: Many women claim that they have been sexually assaulted because they want revenge upon the man they accuse.
Only 4-6% of sexual assault cases are based on false accusation. This percentage of unsubstantiated cases is the same as with many other reported crimes.
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MYTH: Persons who dress or act in a "sexy" way are asking to be sexually assaulted.
Many convicted sexual assailants are unable to remember what their victims looked like or were wearing. Nothing a person does or does not do causes a brutal crime like sexual assault.
Source
Nothing a person does or does not do causes a brutal crime like sexual assault.
Originally posted by jsobecky
From your source
Nothing a person does or does not do causes a brutal crime like sexual assault.
How does the author account for brutal gang rapes?
Originally posted by jsobecky
There are times when you can minimize the risk to yourself. Why you refuse to acknowledge this is puzzling.
Now you can blame society, the gov't, and your milkman for allowing cigarettes to be sold, but the fact remains: You smoked for 20 years, despite all the warnings. This is a case where maybe you could have prevented it.
Originally posted by jsobecky
All I can say is that every individual has the primary responsibility of protecting themselves.
Originally posted by dannia
The rape card? What rape card? What the hell does that mean?
Originally posted by police_officer339
Well now thats a fine attitude for the 1800's
I'm sorry but the statistics just do not support you. The VAST, VAST majority of Rape allegations are eventually proven, substantiated, just plain true.
so if one man has to endure some negative publicity so that MANY, MANY woman can be encouraged to come forth, to report this crime, then so be it. And just what does a rape allegation do to the man??? By your own statement, it is apparent that you would blame the "drunken stripper" so really no fault would be assessed to the man anyway. It is sorrry to say, but most of society would simply believe "she deserved it", "what did she expect wearing those clothes", "You can't tease a man like that and not expect something."
There is no excuse, no reason, no justification for RAPE.
No not even a "drunken stripper."
SHEESHHHH
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by jsobecky
All I can say is that every individual has the primary responsibility of protecting themselves.
I just want to make it absolutely clear to you that I agree with you on this.
put the blame and accountabiltiy where it belongs, directly on the rapist,
Jewish World News -- Sex, Lies and Prison
For the past six months, I've been staring at a 30-pound box filled with court documents and what's left of a young man's life following one college night and a 5- to 15-second disputed sex act.
That is, 5 to 15 seconds into the act of sexual intercourse, she said, "Stop."
He stopped immediately.
She claimed rape.