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Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
I don't think that's true, dg.
A man doesn't have to be sexually aroused to have an erection, plus there are other types of sexual assault besides intercourse that would be considered rape.
U.S. Law
In the United States, there is no national rape law; instead each state drafts its own laws to deal with sexual aggression. More than half the states use narrowly defined, traditional laws that focus on the institutional, gender-specific (male perpetrator/female victim), and sexual nature of the crime. The remaining minority of states use liberalized laws that place greater emphasis on the individual, gender-neutral, and violent nature of sexual coercion. However, even with all the advances that have taken place, current laws in approximately 12 states still have not acknowledged female-perpetrated sexual coercion as a potential variation of sexual aggression. Thus there is no single, universal, gender-neutral legal classification about what constitutes rape in the United States in 2006.
11] The only states that continue to maintain a gender-specific definition of rape are Alabama, Georgia, Maryland, Mississippi, and North Carolina. Idaho defines male rape as a different crime, but still treats it as rape, at www.spr.org...
Originally posted by Savonarola
I'm not saying rapists shouldn't be prosecuted - I'm not defending rapists. I'm saying that women like this stripper (if her story's true) should bear some accountability for putting themselves in unsafe situations with questionable people. "If you keep petting strange dogs eventually one will bite."
-S
from police_officer339
The difference is that it is NOT/NEVER as destructive to a man as it is too a woman. Sorry about your egos, but I've worked this, done the research and its all out there. Heck just google it.
Originally posted by JIMC5499
I still say that the identities of both the accuser and the accused should not be released until the resolution of the trial.
Originally posted by jsobecky
if she finds herself in a bad situation because of her poor judgement, then we have to question her common sense.
As I said, it is diificult to talk about the role of common sense, since the opposition never takes into account those factors. And legally, they are correct.
Originally posted by jsobecky
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[bLegally, a drunk, scantily clad woman is allowed to walk unescorted at 3AM wherever she wants. Legally, she is allowed to tease a man into a sexual heat as much as she wants and then turn off the jets and just say "no".
As I said, it is diificult to talk about the role of common sense, since the opposition never takes into account those factors. And legally, they are correct.
Women have to be held accountable for putting themselves in bad situations...
I sympathize less with "victim chicks" (VCs) that consistently put themselves in dangerous situations (like strippers, prostitutes, alcoholics, drug abusers, and generally promiscuous women) and then act surprised when "some" man/men rape them
Originally posted by Savonarola
You were raped as a child -
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by jsobecky
if she finds herself in a bad situation because of her poor judgement, then we have to question her common sense.
No, we don't have to question her common sense, just some people do.
As I said, it is diificult to talk about the role of common sense, since the opposition never takes into account those factors. And legally, they are correct.
What 'opposition' are you talking about? Those who don't hold the woman accountable for what a rapist does?
Well, let me tell you something. You're wrong. I questioned my common sense for years and I still do. I have told myself how stupid I was to put myself in a position where I was victimized by this man.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
I didn't twist anybody's words. I quoted your exact words and responded to what I thought you meant. I'm not painting you as anything. The paint brush is in your hand, sir.
Every time you try to hold a woman accountable for being raped, you re-open and rub salt in an invisible would that she has carried with her all her life and will carry with her till she dies.
If you come out looking like you blame the rape victim, that's certainly not my doing.
from geek grrl
When a woman says NO, it means NO. It does NOT matter whether she was walking down a dark alley at 3 am wearing skimpy clothing. It does NOT matter if she is a prosititute or a stripper.
Originally posted by jsobecky
You're missing the point. Nobody is saying that NO means YES. What we are saying is "walking down a dark alley at 3 am wearing skimpy clothing" is not the smartest thing to do.