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originally posted by: incoserv
I got to wondering today:
If "gender" is a social construct and has no real meaning, pariticularly in relation to one's genetic and physical attributes;
That is to say that having XY chromosomes and a penis or XX chromosomes and a vagina are meaningless;
If one's physical attributes do not define one's gender and one can be whatever one wants or feels regardless of what their genetic and physical makeup are;
Why is attermpting to physically alter one's external equipment somehow "affirming." If that equipment does not define one why must it be surgically or medically revised?
There seems to be a major contradiction there. On the one hand, having or not having a certain set of equpiment does not define who and what I am. On the other hand, an attempt to surgically alter that equpiment does define who and what I am.
If there is, for example, no definition for what a woman is, how does having my penis surgically removed make me more of a woman?
I think that these are legitimate questions. I expect the regular crowd of trolls to personally attack me, accuse me of having voyeuristic interest in other people's sexuality, etc., etc., etc. (We all know the tropes.) I'll ignore them as those people simply throw fits because they have no legitimate answer to questions like these. If, however, you do haver a cogent, well thought out, logical answer, I'd like to hear it.
originally posted by: Klassified
a reply to: incoserv
A legitimate answer.
originally posted by: scraedtosleep
a reply to: incoserv
I think it's about happiness. When someone feels a certain way in their mind/soul/consciousness, when they look at themselves in a mirror naked and don't see that reflected it makes them unhappy.
Same reason some get plastic surgery when everyone around them tells them they don't need it. Lots of plastic surgeries are done very well and not considered mutilation. Like noise jobs and chin jobs.
I say let them be happy. It doesn't hurt me and I don't believe it hurts society ether. In fact I think it's better for society to be happy, free, and have choices and control over our bodies appearance.
originally posted by: incoserv
a reply to: AdifferentOpinion
I have not yet seen an answer that satisfies me.
originally posted by: incoserv
originally posted by: greendust
If you want to see what gender affirming looks like, go ahead and search on google post operation pics and video. What I have seen doesn't look very helpful at all.
Yeah, I've seen a few of those photographs. Stuff of nightmares.
originally posted by: Another_Nut
originally posted by: scraedtosleep
a reply to: incoserv
I think it's about happiness. When someone feels a certain way in their mind/soul/consciousness, when they look at themselves in a mirror naked and don't see that reflected it makes them unhappy.
Same reason some get plastic surgery when everyone around them tells them they don't need it. Lots of plastic surgeries are done very well and not considered mutilation. Like noise jobs and chin jobs.
I say let them be happy. It doesn't hurt me and I don't believe it hurts society ether. In fact I think it's better for society to be happy, free, and have choices and control over our bodies appearance.
thats, literally , a mental illness.... why not let the bulimics binge and purge?
originally posted by: incoserv
If one's physical attributes do not define one's gender and one can be whatever one wants or feels regardless of what their genetic and physical makeup are;