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originally posted by: dukeofjive696969
Tough to say how i feel about this lady, i come from a violent family, both granpas where drunks and beat the # out of there kids, me and my brother got beat untill we both got bigger than our parents.
I hope that some of the people posting in here dont ever have kids, ive never laid a hand on mine and there doin quite fine.
Parents need to be there for there kids, thats how they become good people.
originally posted by: butcherguy
originally posted by: dukeofjive696969
Tough to say how i feel about this lady, i come from a violent family, both granpas where drunks and beat the # out of there kids, me and my brother got beat untill we both got bigger than our parents.
I hope that some of the people posting in here dont ever have kids, ive never laid a hand on mine and there doin quite fine.
Parents need to be there for there kids, thats how they become good people.
You make good points, sir.
I was able to use this when verbally disciplining my son last week:
Why did you hit your sister?
Do I hit you?
If I were in the habit of beating my kids, I could hardly say that to him.
originally posted by: dukeofjive696969
originally posted by: butcherguy
originally posted by: dukeofjive696969
Tough to say how i feel about this lady, i come from a violent family, both granpas where drunks and beat the # out of there kids, me and my brother got beat untill we both got bigger than our parents.
I hope that some of the people posting in here dont ever have kids, ive never laid a hand on mine and there doin quite fine.
Parents need to be there for there kids, thats how they become good people.
You make good points, sir.
I was able to use this when verbally disciplining my son last week:
Why did you hit your sister?
Do I hit you?
If I were in the habit of beating my kids, I could hardly say that to him.
I cant even say that what she did is wrong, its just too close to home for me, i just couldn't make my kids go through what i lived.
If the neighbor had called the cops, the chances of them being shot on sight , beaten bloody or teased would be high, recent history with black males and law enforcement bares this out.
So let us wait and see what the outcome will be before we cry foul and unnecessary government interference.
Parents need to be there for there kids, thats how they become good people.
originally posted by: roadgravel
a reply to: Shamrock6
Whipping your kids with an electrical cord hard enough to leave welts and break the skin is a different level. Which is what she did.
She said a belt. Was that proven a lie?
Dunno, and doesn't matter. Using an implement and leaving visible marks is what it is, doesn't really matter what you used. Belt, cord, shovel, alligator, doesn't matter much to me.
originally posted by: TheLaughingGod
a reply to: Annee
How tall must that stool be to keep a teenager from just jumping right off it?
Its funny, because we started so young the kids don't think they have a choice. Shhh, don't tell them.
originally posted by: TheLaughingGod
a reply to: Annee
Sounds like a good technique.. I'm conflicted, a part of me thinks it might be a good idea but the unruly kid within me is screaming obscenities wanting to tip it over.. maybe I need to grow up.
How tall must that stool be to keep a teenager from just jumping right off it?
originally posted by: NightSkyeB4Dawn
originally posted by: TheLaughingGod
a reply to: Annee
How tall must that stool be to keep a teenager from just jumping right off it?
Its funny, because we started so young the kids don't think they have a choice. Shhh, don't tell them.
I think by the time the children became teens, they were accepting of the stool as a form of punishment. This proves what my Dad always said about punishment. It has to be something that you understand, not something you fear.
Threaten to shut their phone off
originally posted by: NightSkyeB4Dawn
a reply to: Annee
Threaten to shut their phone off
I never made threats.