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originally posted by: mandyslade
Oh lovely, a bunch of men telling us how the things we experience every single day don't exist.
originally posted by: mandyslade
Oh lovely, a bunch of men telling us how the things we experience every single day don't exist.
originally posted by: MagnaCarta2015
I don't know about 1 in 5 but I know and have met plenty of women that have been sexually assaulted, fought off an attempted assault or were molested at a young age...very few of them ever reported it and some that did never saw it go anywhere. It's quite alarming to think about it. I'm not entirely sure 1 in 5 is a huge stretch.
originally posted by: SlapMonkey
Those who continue to treat rapists as if logical discussion will fix the problem are literally part of the problem, because they often choose to berate those who suggest constructive ideas (concealed carry and training for women, self-defense classes, et.) that empower potential victims are the wrong solution.
originally posted by: RedCairo
originally posted by: SlapMonkey
Those who continue to treat rapists as if logical discussion will fix the problem are literally part of the problem, because they often choose to berate those who suggest constructive ideas (concealed carry and training for women, self-defense classes, et.) that empower potential victims are the wrong solution.
Suggesting we teach all men 'not to rape' merely insults the vast majority who are not criminals and does nothing whatever to change those who are.
Suggesting that since rapists are 100% responsible for their crimes (of course they are, all criminals are), that women have no responsibility for self-protective behaviors, merely places more women in harm's way, resulting in even more victimization.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: SlapMonkey
a reply to: rockintitz
I think what many people fail to understand is that those who rape people have a mental problem that isn't fixed by logical discussion.
Those who continue to treat rapists as if logical discussion will fix the problem are literally part of the problem, because they often choose to berate those who suggest constructive ideas (concealed carry and training for women, self-defense classes, et.) that empower potential victims are the wrong solution.
Both mindsets baffle my sense of understanding.
It could be a mental problem or a programming (culture) issue, but I do agree with you that the berating of those trying to find solutions and open up dialogue about this is wrong. However, if packing a gun and self-defence skills is a person's only solution, then so be it, but it is wrong to put the responsibility there and not deal with (or even acknowledge) the underlying problem.
originally posted by: Nyiah
Insulting an entire gender by suggesting all of them need behavioral education because of the actions of a few is no less sexist than suggesting all of us women need behavioral education to not cry at the drop of a hat.
originally posted by: SlapMonkey
a reply to: rockintitz
I think what many people fail to understand is that those who rape people have a mental problem that isn't fixed by logical discussion.
Those who continue to treat rapists as if logical discussion will fix the problem are literally part of the problem, because they often choose to berate those who suggest constructive ideas (concealed carry and training for women, self-defense classes, et.) that empower potential victims are the wrong solution.
Both mindsets baffle my sense of understanding.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: redmage
originally posted by: InTheLight
It is by definition
No, it's not.
originally posted by: InTheLight
and we women and men are stepping forward to define and explain it.
Mistaken again.
Gender-feminists are are simply stepping forward in attempts to re-define it to further the victim mentality in our spoiled "Victim Culture".
Read and learn.
www.huffingtonpost.com...
Popular movies are strewn with plots of men with the sole purpose of having sex. In the movie "American Pie," the entire plot of the film revolves around teenage boys wanting to throw a party so they can get girls drunk and have sex with them. This has become more popular through comedies in the past few years and is a trend that does not seem to be slowing down. Movies that have similar plots are "Euro Trip" and "Superbad."
originally posted by: TheBadCabbie
Look, reproduction is part of the human experience. Just because the film explores the sexual desire of young men (and women!) as a part of its content doesn't mean that it is promoting or perpetuating a "rape culture".
originally posted by: dollukka
a reply to: rockintitz
Take a vacation and read some news from Scandinavia for example.. it might open your eyes. Never heard of taharrush game ? Then think what could be possibly be advocated by that ?
Advocated are you serious? You mean when rapist is caught he gets a punishment? There are a lot rapes which are never reported as it depends on complainant does she or does she not press charges. If not charged rapist gets " out of jail card " but raped is suffering lot of mental issues and even physical issues after rape. Victim of the rape can spend rest of her life in mental prison after that.
What about campus rapes (for example in US and in UK ).. do they happen ? Is it cultural, what migh lead to those ? The issue is much deeper than you seem to see.
Hundreds of female Cambridge students have been raped or sexually assaulted, says shock survey, but almost none went to police
As many as 8.4 per cent of women said they were attempted assault victims
Findings based on responses from more than 2,000 Cambridge students
Vast majority - 88 per cent - did not report attacks, and only two told police
More than one in thirteen women at Cambridge University has been sexually assaulted, a shocking new survey has found.
According to the study, women at the prestigious institution are routinely groped, molested and even raped - but overwhelmingly do not even report the attacks.
The survey, which received over 2,000 responses, revealed that the majority of sexual assaults happen inside the university's historic colleges, where students typically live for the majority of their studies.
Of the women who responded to the online survey, 8.4 per cent said that they had experienced attempts to seriously sexually assault them.
However, the vast majority - 88 per cent - of victims did not report the assault, and only two students involved the police, with most contacting university staff instead.
An anonymous rape victim who answered the survey said she did not report her attacker because she was so certain nothing would come of it.
She said: 'I have no reason to believe that my report will be taken seriously, be investigated or result in a conviction. On the contrary I have every reason to believe that he would be acquitted.'
LINK
1 in 6 female undergrads sexually assaulted on MIT campus, survey finds
In an unprecedented, broad-based survey, the Massachusetts Institute of Technology polled students about their attitudes and experiences with sexual assault on campus. One in six female undergraduate students who responded to the survey say they’ve experienced sexual assault on the Cambridge, Mass. campus, although fewer than 5 percent reported the experience to authorities or to the school.
MIT released its comprehensive survey results yesterday. The poll is the first of its kind for the MIT community, and it goes beyond the scope of similar studies at other colleges and universities. Nearly 11,000 undergraduate and graduate students were surveyed last spring, and 35 percent responded.
LINK
There is much much more.. are you still saying there isn´t such a thing ?
LINK
Why do so many women choose to remain silent after being sexually assaulted? To answer that question, one should look at the three institutions with which she will come into contact: the police, the hospital, and the courts
- POLICE: In most locations the patrol officer on call will respond to a complaint by a rape victim. This officer has probably had little, if any, training in dealing with rape.
- HOSPITAL: Whether or not a rape victim intends to report an attack to the police, she should obtain medical care. When a woman who has been raped arrives at a hospital, medical personnel have a two-fold responsibility. They must treat the patient and also provide evidence for the police that a rape did occur.
- THE COURTS: A woman may report an assault to the police but choose not to press charges. However, if she does decide to file a complaint and the rapist is arrested, she may come to feel that she, not the rapist, is the person on trial. With few exceptions, statements by these victims describe their court experiences as unpleasant and difficult.
originally posted by: TheBadCabbie
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: SlapMonkey
a reply to: rockintitz
I think what many people fail to understand is that those who rape people have a mental problem that isn't fixed by logical discussion.
Those who continue to treat rapists as if logical discussion will fix the problem are literally part of the problem, because they often choose to berate those who suggest constructive ideas (concealed carry and training for women, self-defense classes, et.) that empower potential victims are the wrong solution.
Both mindsets baffle my sense of understanding.
It could be a mental problem or a programming (culture) issue, but I do agree with you that the berating of those trying to find solutions and open up dialogue about this is wrong. However, if packing a gun and self-defence skills is a person's only solution, then so be it, but it is wrong to put the responsibility there and not deal with (or even acknowledge) the underlying problem.
What is/are the underlying problem(s), in your opinion?
originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: InTheLight
Inthelight! Jesus Christ woman, hey my name is Jarod, I don't hate women in fact I respect them, I love them, and honor them! Why are you in every thread that might say otherwise? I'm seriously wondering because I am a right wing man but I don't hate you, in fact I wish the best for you and care a lot about my fellow man/woman (but to hear you tell it you may think otherwise) I hope your remember all that withstanding your crusade.