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originally posted by: bitsforbytes
a reply to: Annee
Biologically i agree. Psychologically we are not animals anymore. Some still are, but we are striving for something better no?
originally posted by: Gemwolf
I would say the answer is - no, cheating is not natural.
If you consider the fact that emotional pain like rejection and disbelief (being lied to) are processed and reported to the anterior insula and the anterior cingulate cortex parts of the brain. These are the same parts of the brain that gets activated by physical pain. In other words when you are betrayed and/or rejected by your partner (i.e. when you catch a cheating partner) the same neurological processes happen than when you would've been physically hurt.
So, why would cheating be "natural" if we are hardwired (i.e. nothing to do with society) to experience a negative feeling when we are cheated on? In evolutionary terms physical pain we experience is a signal which told us to stop what we were doing or to take alternative action. I'd say the same goes for emotional pain. If cheating (or in other words being cheated on) was natural, then our brains would've been hardwired differently.
For your leisure, some additional reading material:
The Brain Takes Rejection Like Physical Pain
Emotional and Physical Pain Activate Similar Brain Regions
Why do we experience physical pain?
Cingulate cortex - Wikipedia
Anterior cingulate cortex
And so on and so forth.
originally posted by: Lyxdeslic
Because we've been programmed that way. We're taught from a young age that having one partner is the way it works. ...
originally posted by: American-philosopher
I was having a conversation with a friend of mine and you know you have one conversation on a topic which leads to another topic and so on and so on. So I forget what actually lead us to this. My friend was making the allegation that it is natural for us as humans to cheat. That when we look at nature there is cheating by animals. he gave the example of a bird who builds a nest and another bird comes and takes that nest.
I countered and then said "I don't think it is natural for us to cheat I think Natural Law comes into play. And that generally humans want to abide by Natural Law.
he then came back and said haven't you ever had the urge to cheat? And I know now were getting into the territory of Nietzsche and his sayings on the topic of Urge's and all that.
I still say that it is not natural for us as humans to cheat. and philosophically I believe cheating is not natural. There almost contradictory of one another. hence the term cheating the system.
I would like to know what others think is cheating natural and do we as humans just fight our natural urge to cheat? Most of us anyways.
originally posted by: Emma3
... And there are animals that mate for life.
Indeed, the “faithful” behavior of the gibbons forms an appealing natural narrative, but we now know that such stories were far too good to be true. scienceblogs.com...
originally posted by: Emma3
a reply to: Annee
I believe it happens, even if, say, not every gibbon is like that, some probably are. And it's not just gibbons anyway. Besides, what matters most is what I said before that: being rational and respectful towards one another is supposed to be what distinguishes us from the other animals.
The realization that gibbons “cheat” and “divorce” leads us to a very important realization; there is a difference between social monogamy and reproductive monogamy, the presence of one not necessarily indicating the other. This illuminates the fact that reproductive monogamy is much rarer than previously thought, mating being a much more opportunistic affair than one dictated by social bonds. Indeed, there may very well be advantages to being socially monogamous that are distinct from reproductive monogamy, the pair bonding of gibbons perhaps having much more to do with defending a territory (and hence resources) than whatever sense of long-term affection was attributed to them previously.
scienceblogs.com...
originally posted by: Emma3
a reply to: Annee
Still, that's not my main argument. Besides, gibbons are not the only animals that do that. But it doesn't even matter if that happens to be true to gibbons or even all the other animals that are supposed to do that, my point is: respecting others is a characteristic that's supposed to be what distinguishes us from the other animals. Why the constant comparison? Like Auricom said, you can't justify things like murder by saying "oh, animals do that too, you know?".