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Tylerdurden1
reply to post by WhiteAlice
That wasnt my intentions at all. Its just that when women go all crazy on gender equality they tend to seek out males that agree with them more, instead of someone who had thier own ideas and can still be an individual. Im not attacking anyone, and if it came off that way Im sorry.
I dont know you or your SO, Im just saying that maintaining a role in a relationship is hard when it comes to gender equality, and some feminists (not you) tend to alienate their partners/love interests/crushes..ect, by doing so.
. This was exactly what I was getting at in my first post in here. The second I talk about gender equality I get this bull crap that I got here. I am used to it -shrug- and it won't be believed because...well it's ATS and the internet but my feelings are 100% me
I'm a female gamer and for me, sexual harassment and misogyny have been a huge part of the whole gaming experience. It's just video games but it's really remarkable what happens even in something where there is a decades long or even thousands of years long established stereotype. Online gaming has really only been going on for maybe 16-17 years.
I have been a writer for gaming sites off and on for over a decade. When the issue of sexism in gaming came up a good 16 years ago, I decided to run a little experiment. I basically made my nickname completely gender neutral and started playing regularly on a server. I was well liked, other players would readily greet me and the worst thing that anybody ever said was "oh god, so in so is on the opposite team...time to lose " . After two weeks, I used voice comms for the first time while the server was filled with regulars and the chat virtually exploded. Almost the entire server sexually harassed me ranging from the "hey baby" no big deal stuff to threats of rape. It was pretty nasty and shocking. However, that was 16 years ago and even the gaming community has improved to the point where those who would respond to a female gamer in the latter way tend to get banned by the other players on the server. That is a huge improvement.
My sister was an exec at a large bank and ended up resigning because her direct superior was sexually harassing her and ordering her to get coffee for executive meetings because she was the only female executive.
My feathers really aren't ruffled by you in particular or anything that you've said either, FancyName. Like I said already, you're a Prince among men. There are certain character traits and personality types that actually negate the empathy within me.
FancyName
reply to post by WhiteAlice
Do you have any real life examples for yourself or is it all simply based on random strangers shouting stuff through a mic in an online game?
Get real.
There is much more I want to say based on your last post, or rather, latest released episode of your life, but I guess imma let it go, there is nothing I can say that will paint the picture clearer than your own words.
Tylerdurden1
reply to post by KyoZero
I respect your beliefs as well. Im not trying to say your less masculine or anything. My point is when you start to be truly equal you sort of lose your identity. My opinion is that is a bad thing. Its what sets you apart in a relationship. If that makes sense.
Irony: To be asked for real life examples (already provided) and then, issuing a complaint about real life examples already given.
Tylerdurden1
reply to post by WhiteAlice
I will try to make sense of what I said ..LOL. When you are truly equal, on the same playing field, I guess I would fell like less of a man, if I didnt get to do some man things. Like opening a jar or bringing home the bacon...so to speak.
When you are equal in a relationship, I feel like I would get to do less man things...I hope that made sense!
Does the emasculation through equality include nuturing and looking after your children's needs?
I will try to make sense of what I said ..LOL. When you are truly equal, on the same playing field, I guess I would fell like less of a man, if I didnt get to do some man things. Like opening a jar or bringing home the bacon...so to speak.
When you are equal in a relationship, I feel like I would get to do less man things...I hope that made sense!
FancyName
reply to post by InTheLight
Does the emasculation through equality include nuturing and looking after your children's needs?
Can I deduct that nurturing and looking after kids' needs is a non masculine trait according to you?