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This whole "feeling empathy" seems to be turning into a little club of those enlightened folk who can look down on those who arent like them.. particularly those dastardly conservatives. Too bad. I was expecting a real conversation on this subject.
There are no conservative empaths?
what?
Am I saying you self-described empaths are NOT empathetic? NO. Of course not. My problem is when your self-aggrandizement turns into unfounded criticisms of conservatives, who on the whole do a lot better job of than you do.
Too bad. I was expecting a real conversation on this subject.
wildtimes
The big buzz about empathy stems from a revolutionary shift in the science of how we understand human nature. The old view that we are essentially self-interested creatures is being nudged firmly to one side by evidence that we are also homo empathicus, wired for empathy, social cooperation, and mutual aid.
Habit 1: Cultivate curiosity about strangers
Habit 2: Challenge prejudices and discover commonalities
Habit 3: Try another person’s life
Habit 4: Listen hard—and open up
Habit 5: Inspire mass action and social change
Habit 6: Develop an ambitious imagination
The thing that makes the human race so extraordinary is the VARIETY of personalities and differences and difference in perspective.
To be allowed to see someone else's life broken down into shattered pieces without them even telling you is something no one really wants. Because it taxes the emotions to a point of burn out, sleep deprivation among some of the traits of the gift; which is the sacrifice that has to be made.
There are times when I crave empathic people, but some times I'm burned out and need to dial it down and go into research mode.
I get the "vibe" thing, but have learned to turn it off on the fly.
wildtimes
Empathy is the cornerstone of civility. It is imperative, if we want world peace, to develop it as a specie.
I've always been like this: highly concerned with the other person's plight, and willing to listen (hence I got into social work and psychotherapy to try to help)...
but not everyone (especially, as we all know, the Wall Street Wolves and Corporate Vultures like Mitt Romney ) has that ability to 'imagine what it must be like.'
Here is an article about how to develop that trait - if it doesn't come 'naturally' to you -
and, I'm happy to say, it references business leaders as getting 'on board' the empathy and compassion train!
Six Habits of Highly Empathic People
Folks, THIS is what can change the world....please read and comment!
If you think you’re hearing the word “empathy” everywhere, you’re right. It’s now on the lips of scientists and business leaders, education experts and political activists. But there is a vital question that few people ask: How can I expand my own empathic potential? Empathy is not just a way to extend the boundaries of your moral universe. According to new research, it’s a habit we can cultivate to improve the quality of our own lives.
But what is empathy? It’s the ability to step into the shoes of another person, aiming to understand their feelings and perspectives, and to use that understanding to guide our actions. That makes it different from kindness or pity. And don’t confuse it with the Golden Rule, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” As George Bernard Shaw pointed out, “Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you—they might have different tastes.” Empathy is about discovering those tastes.
The big buzz about empathy stems from a revolutionary shift in the science of how we understand human nature. The old view that we are essentially self-interested creatures is being nudged firmly to one side by evidence that we are also homo empathicus, wired for empathy, social cooperation, and mutual aid.
Mmhm....the (PIC) psychopaths in charge could use some of that 'empathy', eh? (Aka TPTB)
Habit 1: Cultivate curiosity about strangers
Habit 2: Challenge prejudices and discover commonalities
Habit 3: Try another person’s life
Habit 4: Listen hard—and open up
Habit 5: Inspire mass action and social change
Habit 6: Develop an ambitious imagination
The article linked has two videos (I can post them if you all are interested in having them on our site), and lots of detailed info about these six traits.
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND that every man, woman, and child on this planet be taught these strategies.
It is how we will be able to coexist in this new global context.
Now that we are bombarded (or can be, if we're paying attention) by world events and other's points of view on such an all-encompassing scale - we MUST be able to bridge the gaps. Open the dialogues.
LISTEN to each other. FEEL for each other. TALK to each other.
Peace on earth; and goodwill toward men.
edit on 1/30/14 by wildtimes because: (no reason given)
jacygirl
Aww, wildtimes....I love the way you think!
Yes, Yesss and YES!
I was born an ultra-empath, and I've raised 3 kids to empathy-adulthood, lol.
I simply cannot comprehend how everyone does not feel like this, as it's all I've ever known.
S&F
jacygirl