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Originally posted by BO XIAN
reply to post by TheRedneck
Wellllllllllllllllllll
THE TIME TO FIX
TEENAGE PROBLEMS
IS
AGES 0-6!
Originally posted by BO XIAN
Depends . . . yes and no.
My parents adopted a baby girl when I was 10. And mother insisted I have a huge part in her child-care so I'd be a good father and hubby. That included 2:00 AM feedings and lots of diapers etc.
I think more, it depends on the degree of EMPATHY--the capacity to put one's self in another's skin.
."Common sense" does,and so do morals and principles instilled at an early age.
I AGREE WITH YOU
100%
ENTIRELY
AMEN
Originally posted by BO XIAN
I could readily agree with you. But where'd the fun be then! LOL.
Certainly being 24/7 on the hotseat requires a resilience and capacity to think quickly on one's feet in the midst of being exhausted and a 100 other things . . . that is astounding, imho.
Originally posted by BO XIAN
reply to post by TheRedneck
THE TIME TO FIX
TEENAGE PROBLEMS
IS
AGES 0-6!
Introduction
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Each individual's ability to form and maintain relationships using this "emotional glue" is different. Some people seem "naturally" capable of loving. They form numerous intimate and caring relationships and, in doing so, get pleasure. Others are not so lucky. They feel no "pull" to form intimate relationships, find little pleasure in being with or close to others. They have few, if any, friends, and more distant, less emotional glue with family. In extreme cases an individual may have no intact emotional bond to any other person. They are self-absorbed, aloof, or may even present with classic neuropsychiatric signs of being schizoid or autistic.
The capacity and desire to form emotional relationships is related to the organization and functioning of specific parts of the human brain. Just as the brain allows us to see, smell, taste, think, talk, and move, it is the organ that allows us to love — or not. The systems in the human brain that allow us to form and maintain emotional relationships develop during infancy and the first years of life. Experiences during this early vulnerable period of life are critical to shaping the capacity to form intimate and emotionally healthy relationships. Empathy, caring, sharing, inhibition of aggression, capacity to love, and a host of other characteristics of a healthy, happy, and productive person are related to the core attachment capabilities which are formed in infancy and early childhood.
. . .
What is attachment?
Well, it depends. The word "attachment" is used frequently by mental health, child development, and child protection workers but it has slightly different meanings in these different contexts. The first thing to know is that we humans create many kinds of "bonds." A bond is a connection between one person and another. In the field of infant development, attachment refers to a special bond characterized by the unique qualities of maternal-infant or primary caregiver-infant relationships. The attachment bond has several key elements: (1) an attachment bond is an enduring emotional relationship with a specific person; (2) the relationship brings safety, comfort, and pleasure; (3) loss or threat of loss of the person evokes intense distress. This special form of relationship is best characterized by the maternal-child relationship. As we study the nature of these special relationships, we are finding out about how important they can be for the future development of the child. Indeed, many researchers and clinicians feel that the maternal-child attachment provides the working framework for all subsequent relationships that the child will develop. A solid and healthy attachment with a primary caregiver appears to be associated with a high probability of healthy relationships with others, while poor attachment with the mother or primary caregiver appears to be associated with a host of emotional and behavioral problems later in life.
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Originally posted by Reaching
That being said, I found this man's video absolutely appalling and I fervently hope that Child Protective Services pays him a visit.
Originally posted by sonnny1
reply to post by BO XIAN
I might agree with some of the things you say but............
The world has been doing fine,for thousands of years,before we had a pill for every problem,or before we had a DOCTOR with advice for every problem.
Sorry,but Thats how I see it. All the clinical mumbo jumbo,doesn't help to raise a teenager."Common sense" does,and so do morals and principles instilled at an early age.