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Originally posted by SoymilkAlaska
reply to post by FissionSurplus
i don't believe you.
no way your daughter agrees with that.
if she hit her head a while back i apologize
and im not trying to be rude, im serious, and i apologize.
peace.
Originally posted by smyleegrl
Children need discipline to learn respect. While part of me applauded the father's actions, I would not condone what he did. He used a gun, in anger, and then posted his tantrum online.
If his daughter has dealt with this her whole life, maybe her feelings have merit. She handled the situation poorly, but she's a teenager. By definition, teenagers are constantly making mistakes, testing authority, etc.
However, the father is an adult and should be better able to deal with his anger. What he did isn't going to make her more respectful but more resentful.
Oh and if you are a parent who does things like this with your child, I also hope child protective services show up at YOUR door as well.
Originally posted by SoymilkAlaska
reply to post by TheRedneck
school is hard for kids, and then they send her home with 5 hours of homework.
she probably couldn't even catch a single break since the day she was born, constantly doing mind numbing busy work from school and fetching him coffee every 2 seconds, its enough to drive someone up the wall and reach escape velocity.
people need to get rid of their mentality of respect and demanding it and these crazy ways of raising children, they create monsters this way.
What I saw was an implied show of force
implying
It's called 'tough love', and it worked well for centuries. Of course, the alternative is as you described; it has worked badly for a few decades.
Originally posted by darkblade71
The reality is that a lot of parents are to soft on their kids if their kids are the type that need to learn some manners.
There are also a lot of "cool" parents who let their kids do whatever they want and don't pay that much attention.
Mix the two and you get a child who by 18 is totally out of control and destined to walk a very hard road, if they make it that far.
This parent was neither, and his daughter will grow up with a better understanding about boundaries and the HARD lesson of who you can and cannot cross and what and when. Shocking? Yes, drastic? yes, Harmful? Not at all. The world is a rough place kids, be glad people like this still exist to teach children that there are boundaries. I bet this girl won't be slamming beer at a kegger any time in the near future!
Good job dad, from one dad to another, you get a
Originally posted by darkblade71
The reality is that a lot of parents are to soft on their kids if their kids are the type that need to learn some manners.
There are also a lot of "cool" parents who let their kids do whatever they want and don't pay that much attention.
Mix the two and you get a child who by 18 is totally out of control and destined to walk a very hard road, if they make it that far.
This parent was neither, and his daughter will grow up with a better understanding about boundaries and the HARD lesson of who you can and cannot cross and what and when. Shocking? Yes, drastic? yes, Harmful? Not at all. The world is a rough place kids, be glad people like this still exist to teach children that there are boundaries. I bet this girl won't be slamming beer at a kegger any time in the near future!
Good job dad, from one dad to another, you get a
Originally posted by SoymilkAlaska
reply to post by TheRedneck
school is hard for kids, and then they send her home with 5 hours of homework.
she probably couldn't even catch a single break since the day she was born, constantly doing mind numbing busy work from school and fetching him coffee every 2 seconds, its enough to drive someone up the wall and reach escape velocity.
people need to get rid of their mentality of respect and demanding it and these crazy ways of raising children, they create monsters this way.