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originally posted by: InTheLight
If 99% of men don't rape, then who is raping the 1 in 5 women
that would take it up near 3-4 out of 5 women are raped?
Why would so many rape victims not consider their experience to be rape? ... Some do not want to view the perpetrator – often an intimate partner – as a rapist.
Others are influenced by rape myths that define rape narrowly
or that blame the victim for rape.
Re: the actual experience, dude, I would so be telling her husband about it.
originally posted by: InTheLight
This research believes rape is a learned behaviour; therefore, rape culture.
www.d.umn.edu...
For those genuinely interested in discussing the underlying issues, I recommend reading the paper in the link above.
So "rape stats" include tons of crap that isn't rape at all by any SANE definition.
originally posted by: chelsdh
How many people would consider that rape?
Marital rape means any unwanted sexual acts by a spouse or ex-spouse that is committed without the other person's consent. Such illegal sexual activity are done using force, threat of force, intimidation, or when a person is unable to consent.
originally posted by: chelsdh
And I would think that is the complete opposite of what activists would want.
originally posted by: InTheLight
Did you consent?
originally posted by: InTheLight
And if her relartonship status was so important to you in making the decision to consent, why didn't you ask first?
originally posted by: InTheLight
a reply to: redmage
Did you consent? And if her relartonship status was so important to you in making the decision to consent, why didn't you ask first?
originally posted by: InTheLight
a reply to: redmage
Odd, I must say. So, the questions I have then are - do you feel you were raped rather than betrayed after giving your consent and does the law include this as sexual coersion due to withholding information which would allow one to make an informed decision regarding sexual consent to be a form of rape? What we define as rape in our minds may not fit a lawful societal consensus definition of rape.
However, the law is clear about giving consent.edit on 17-4-2016 by InTheLight because: (no reason given)
originally posted by: InTheLight
a reply to: redmage
Odd, I must say. So, the questions I have then are - do you feel you were raped rather than betrayed after giving your consent and does the law include this as sexual coersion due to withholding information which would allow one to make an informed decision regarding sexual consent to be a form of rape?