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Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Originally posted by Ireminisce
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
Perhaps the modern women doesnt want to stay at home and raise a family for you?
If a woman doesn't want to raise children, then this thread doesn't even apply to her. Don't have children. Simple as that.
How do you get that? Feminism is about All women, not just the ones that want children
This thread is titled "Feminism and the Downfall of the Traditional Family", so if a woman doesn't want children this thread doesn't apply. This thread isn't about feminism in general, it's specifically dealing with how it has affected families.
Originally posted by InTheLight
Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Originally posted by Ireminisce
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
Perhaps the modern women doesnt want to stay at home and raise a family for you?
If a woman doesn't want to raise children, then this thread doesn't even apply to her. Don't have children. Simple as that.
How do you get that? Feminism is about All women, not just the ones that want children
I wonder if Ireminisce's husband would get her a beer?
edit on 19-1-2013 by InTheLight because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by LesMisanthrope
The very name feminism excludes men. It implies that masculinity is the enemy, a vile form of discrimination akin to discrimination of women. This mentality, found only in the basest of creatures, sees 50% of the human population of earth, whoever is not of the same gender them, as somehow lesser.
No gender is better or lesser, only different. Feminists practice gender bigotry, a huge double-standard. Those pushing for equality of rights, not equality of gender, should not align itself with such madness.
Patriarchy is oligarchy. It isn't a war against women or men, it is a war on the individual.
Please do some research on the "Cave-man" times, There is plenty of evidence to suggest there was no pre-set gender roles, women took part in hunting and collecting food, duties were evenly shared and not based on sex. People back then worked as a unit - You did what you were good at for the good of the tribe. Need more evidence? There are still tribes today that do not operate according to "gender roles" and they've gotten by just fine.
But obviously for many people it was broken? That's why people sought divorce? That's why parents advised their kids to not settle down to early in life? Perhaps the "family structure" is idea for around 15 years and naturally begins to break down? Just seems obvious its not perfect to me.
Originally posted by Ireminisce
Originally posted by SearchLightsInc
Originally posted by Ireminisce
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
Perhaps the modern women doesnt want to stay at home and raise a family for you?
If a woman doesn't want to raise children, then this thread doesn't even apply to her. Don't have children. Simple as that.
How do you get that? Feminism is about All women, not just the ones that want children
This thread is titled "Feminism and the Downfall of the Traditional Family", so if a woman doesn't want children this thread doesn't apply. This thread isn't about feminism in general, it's specifically dealing with how it has affected families.edit on 19-1-2013 by Ireminisce because: (no reason given)
Perception is a very unique thing. Masculinity is allowed yet feminism is perceived as a direct direct attack on the opposite gender? haha, strange.
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
Feminism from the very beginning is about equality and anyone who has actually bothered to do their research would be well informed of that fact.
Originally posted by Ireminisce
First of all I didn't bring up cavemen, that was someone else that I was replying to.
And yes, women took part in many different roles, but the basic idea was to help strengthen the family.
That's where I think a lot of people are losing me. A wife should do what she can no matter what it is to support her husband.
The males in these tribes you're talking about also had the added pressure of protecting the females.
The survival of the females and children is what ensured that their tribe would not become extinct.
That's why males have a natural instinct to protect.
It's also why males are physically stronger.
Females have a natural instinct to nurture.
That's why females are the only ones that can give birth and nurse infants.
We were biologically designed to be nurturers.
If men and women are supposed to do the exact same things then why are we designed so differently, not only physically but emotionally as well?
You're right it's not perfect, but what is? If you ask me people seek divorce for a lot of the wrong reasons.
You can't expect your marriage to be fairy tale perfect and if that's what you want, then you shouldn't get married.
When you realize that your unrealistic view of marriage is unobtainable the divorce is only going to negatively affect your children.
Today, people get divorced before even trying to find the problem and address it.
I realize that there are circumstances where divorce is extremely necessary. In abusive marriages I think most sane people agree that a divorce would actually be better for the kids.
About the drug use and other problems, your guess is as good as mine. We have our own opinions on that and I think they both make since.
Originally posted by Ireminisce
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
In this thread we're talking about how it affects traditional families that do have children, so there really wasn't an argument there to begin with. You just brought up a totally different subject.
Originally posted by workingforyou
Where the hell were all these feminists 20,000 years ago when we were all stuck in caves? Oh that's right they were begging the men to go out and hunt/gather for them. Who do you think got us out of those caves? Would we have made it this far if women made the decisions?
Originally posted by Ireminisce
reply to post by SearchLightsInc
Feminism from the very beginning is about equality and anyone who has actually bothered to do their research would be well informed of that fact.
No one is saying it wasn't about equality. At least I'm not. I realize that feminism was necessary because many women before were deprived of even their basic human rights. What I am saying is that it's changed. We do have equal rights now, so what are modern feminists fighting for?
Perception is a very unique thing. Masculinity is allowed yet feminism is perceived as a direct direct attack on the opposite gender? haha, strange.