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I think it's a two way street and is extremely complex.
Originally posted by AthlonSavage
Is love when it boiled down really just the worship of a material object. That object could be inorganic or organic. IIf so then isnt love just an obsession. Isnt an obsession just a form of maddness. Are the only sane ones the ones who dont hold possessions of the heart?edit on 29-9-2012 by AthlonSavage because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by AthlonSavage
Is love when it boiled down really just the worship of a material object. That object could be inorganic or organic. IIf so then isnt love just an obsession. Isnt an obsession just a form of maddness. Are the only sane ones the ones who dont hold possessions of the heart?edit on 29-9-2012 by AthlonSavage because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by jiggerj
reply to post by AthlonSavage
Agree.
Long before we actively participate in relationships we develop an idea of what we want in life: we want a spouse, kids, dog, little white house with a picket fence...
And then we hunt down that unknown, future significant other......
.....that will turn our idea into reality.
Originally posted by nothingwrong
Originally posted by jiggerj
reply to post by AthlonSavage
Agree.
Dude, that's really sad. Stop and think a moment just exactly what you are saying........
Originally posted by DAVID64
The definition of "Love" I like and believe the most, is that your happiness depends on the happiness of someone else.
It fits my wife and I quite well. Not because when she's down she's grouchy and I just want it to stop, because I truly hurt when she hurts. Maybe not in a physical way, but I just can't stand it when something has happened to upset her. Not the everyday little stuff, like the dog having an accident on the new carpet, big events.Some will know exactly what I mean. When she hurts and you just can't fix it, it hurts you too.
Love attaches you to another "THING" whether it is a "human", "spirit" or "object".
Hate does the same - except it is destructive
(so it attracts TO destroy - like a person looking for an enemy for revenge)
Apathy just sees things as they are without caring...
(So a "thing" is just a "thing" - no hate, love, or any emotion towards it)
Originally posted by DeadSeraph
Does anyone in this thread have children?
The OP's definition seems a fairly narrow and immature view of love... I'm kind of surprised to see so many people in agreement?
Originally posted by DeadSeraph
Does anyone in this thread have children?
The OP's definition seems a fairly narrow and immature view of love... I'm kind of surprised to see so many people in agreement?
Originally posted by daskakik
Originally posted by DeadSeraph
Does anyone in this thread have children?
The OP's definition seems a fairly narrow and immature view of love... I'm kind of surprised to see so many people in agreement?
I do and I also happen to agree with the OP, even if he/she is "a bit shallow and immature".
While I do know love and I think I understand how precious it is, I also understand that there seems to be a skewed obsession with it. It seems to be artificially elevated above all other human emotions. Everywhere we look it takes center stage and at the same time it is made to look like the most elusive thing. It's seems to be the carrot dangled in front of us to keep us pulling the load.edit on 1-10-2012 by daskakik because: (no reason given)