posted on Sep, 29 2012 @ 08:27 PM
Originally posted by AthlonSavage
reply to post by NotAnAspie
Lust is definitely an obession that is common between men and woman. Still lust for a womans intellectual or her spirituality or any other materials
aspects she owns is also lust. Doesnt doesnt need to just be physical infatuation so i guess i have to say you were right first time off its all lust
masking and pretending to be love at least between men and woman objects.
again, I didn't say it was all lust.
sure, intellect and all that can be attractive and lustful but let's say the attractive, intellectual, spiritual person was a real buttmunch. now
honestly, I think it's like a home... and you take god given resources and you build it, not just a house... but a home and where ever you go,
whatever you do... you will set your little belongings out in an accessible place even if it's in your cardboard box... even if it's just where you
lay your head. You find yourself a place to lay it for your own well being, your own self respect but also for you're potential to serve good that
keeps from giving up.
maybe it's something that is always there... somewhere, and it was a part of you all along... that other person but it's real value is what you make
of it. You have to find them, you have to open your eyes and you have to make effort and you have to build it... and if the wind comes and tears it
down, you mend it and you maintain it. Maybe it's not just a squirmy spasm in the chest area... or the realization "I'm in love" maybe it's much more
than that and is somewhat beyond our full understanding and therefore not only must we acknowledge that love is possible, but we must also acknowledge
where it is not supposed to exist... because if you tell yourself that the wrong thing is love, you will definitely stop believing in it.
if you lust for someone and you think you love them but you don't treat them with all the things that we describe as love, which is much more complex
than lust... then you will begin believing it is just lust as well. You will realize that you just love certain things about that person but you will
not want to admit it so you will start thinking that love isn't real. I think it's a two way street and is extremely complex.
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