posted on Sep, 1 2012 @ 02:18 PM
Originally posted by wylekat
TO say she's cheating on me is about as absurd as my cat suddenly standing on his hind legs and singing like Tom Jones.
I have never met a person in a relationship (a one where they are happy) and admit it is even possible for their other to do things behind their
until they find out...hense why such events cause such massive rage and at times even someone dying...because it is such a shock, a complete reality
Not saying this is the case mind you..just commenting on a unhealthy view you hold which is more interesting than the rather confusing account your
giving. She is human, humans can do this. it doesn't take weeks, days, or even hours to cheat on you..its a human fallacy, a biological draw that
even the most pure are tempted and often fall into...keep your eyes open and your mind understanding that you can only trust yourself in such
things..not that a person doesn't truely love you even if they do fall into that bio-trap, just people are indeed instinctual animals that react
Never let your emotional state be dependent on the actions of another.
Now, about your story. I would say question her a bit more..accept what she is saying as what she will relay to you, but remain skeptical..if she is
doing things behind your back and saying some crappy lies, then at least your becoming aware verses starting to get all goofy with thinking the
universe is bending verses the most common occurrence of your girl simply not letting you in on the entire truth.