OP, I love your post and I do strongly disagree with what you described as viewpoints from the talk show. I think they were taken out of context.
However, IMO, everyone is missing the point!
The status of "Wonder-Women" who do it all are degrading the status of women in our society!
Women, whether you work outside the home, or don't, you still do the most "work" if there are other family members involved (husbands, children,
other close relatives near-by).
Men, even if you are working, you probably deep down inside know this to be true. At the most, you may be one who handles grass-cutting, taking out
the garbage, and other infrequent tasks.
Women, even those who work 6-6, still are generally the ones who prepare the meals, do most all of the house-keeping/cleaning, take care of the
laundry, take care of most, if not all, of the childrens' needs, go shopping, this list is very long and I could create a whole thread on details.
Instead, I will say, unless you able to afford a full-time housekeeper, cook, nanny, you are not degrading other women.
Just doing what a "wonder woman" is supposed to be doing.