posted on Mar, 30 2012 @ 03:14 PM
here is what you do.
go to a bar that lets 18 year olds in. go have fun, and just hang out.
when a guy hits on you, engage in a conversation with him.
if it does not work the first night, go back the next.
do not leave the bar until a guy hits on you. by the end of the night, someone will.
BUT make sure you are dressed nice, style your hair cool, and have on makeup that is comfortable to you.
if you look like you are fun and adventurous and care about your looks a bit, guys will notice.
it is that simple.
i actually wrote a manuscript about my adventures in bars and clubs. i do not drink, so i just go out and observe and socialize. i am working on my
second book now, which is sort of the sequel to that first joint.
so i know ALL about this stuff. trust me, all a girl has to do is hang out and look cute.
and guys like girls of ALL shapes and sizes.
how it works is thus-
if you are a girl, and you do not look like a lunch lady or bus driver, which i doubt you do, because you are 18, then 80% of the guys you meet will
want to hook up with you. that does not mean date, that means just hook up.
a guy is at 20%. meaning, 20% of every chick you meet will want to hook up with you.
but that is JUST the start. if someone is married and does not cheat, and you meet them, they might be sexually attracted to you, because they fall
into the percentages, but they cannot hook up.
when a guy meets a chick at the bar, even if she is attracted to him, he still has to pull out the right moves in order to 'seal the deal' so to
same thing with a girl. even tho 8 out of 10 guys would hook up with you, you still need to work JUST a little bit to let them know this.
but i am in the new york city area, so its a bit different than say a small town. but the principals are the same.
as soon as you find a guy interested in you, and you like him, make the first move. and then, make sure you have FUN with him.
google the leaked olivia munn pics. girls hate that when i show them olivia munn's pics, where she sends pics and 'messages' to her boyfriends.
but you know what? that chick is famous and WAY hot, but she busts her ass to keep the guy happy.
every chick should do that.
and then every guy should bust his ass to make the chick happy as well.