posted on Mar, 29 2012 @ 10:42 PM
reply to post by eyesontheskies
OK. girls often make the first move. Some don't even know they are doing so. Some do.
First, find a target! This is a very important first step. Be picky. If you are very cute, stunning or smart many guys are put off because THEY are
just as confused, shy or whatever! Make sure he is unattached. Info from your girlfriends is quite valuable. Be careful that they do not respond
with jealousy to put you off someone you like.
Next, when you walk past him, use his name. Start simply, a "Hi Mark" is all it takes. Look at him occasionally and let him notice. Smile. This
does not mean stalk him. Opportunities will present themselves naturally. You may have to set one up now and again.
While he is putting his books away (without his mates around) walk up and engage him in conversation. Just ask how he felt about a teacher or
Let nature take its course.
If the above does not work ask him out. You need to take as much pressure off as possible. Something like:
"Hi Mark,you interest me but I only see you at school. Could we go out a few times so we can get to knoe each other a little better."
If this does not work select second target and try again. Keep trying, it is a game, learn how to play it.
If you encounter a string of rejections DO NOT lower your standards.
Not every male goes to your school. Join a club or a sport where the males outnumber the females. If you are not into sport try debating clubs,
chess clubs or the like.
It is a very important game and a fun one if you can take the pressure off yourself.
edit on 29-3-2012 by pheonix358 because: error