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Originally posted by earthdude
reply to post by OhNoItsCritical
You have been spoiled. You have a significant other? Lucky you. You have lost the ability to count your blessings. You might need some suffering to fix that.
Faith is the end of confusion. And God is not the author of confusion. Confusion is from the spirit of error, not the spirit of truth. It's time to learn who Jesus is according to the Bible, not what others say who he is.
Originally posted by Smokinmirrors
I feel the same way almost exactly. Except I feel like I have more and more control over my reality just with my thoughts. But less in control of my emotion. which affects my thoughts wich.....It's so confusing nowdays......and then so clear. I just know we are going threw constant changes faster and faster.
Originally posted by HillbillyHippie1[/]
Be you and not one of the "collective" ...
Nothing else matters... If you can make it with nothing but who made you, then you are alive and self-determined, which means your life is your own.
Fix yourself by finding yourself in a way you never have before, and if it don't save that relationship - so be it. It WILL save you!
...If they love YOU, then they will love you being you, but if they no longer love you, then they will not love what it is that you do which is you, but YOU will love what is you and they will no longer matter as much as you thought they earned the right to mean to you.
I'm getting sick of this journey
I can't find a job, nor do I want one. I feel forced into looking for employment.
I remember when I believed and look forward to december 21st 2012, believing that something magical was going to happen and save me from all of my problems, but now I don't even believe that.
I used to be afraid of things like the illuminati, GMO, flouride, whether I'll make the ascension or not, and some other things like aliens and whatnot, but I'm not afraid and couldn't care less about any of that anymore.. now it boils down to my relationship with my significant other (which that situation is BEYOND complicated, I won't even bother explaining that, I'll just say that we both want to be together but something is preventing it).
Originally posted by Golden Rule
reply to post by OhNoItsCritical
I'm getting sick of this journey
Which journey is it you refer to?
I can't find a job, nor do I want one. I feel forced into looking for employment.
I get the impression that the survival of your relationship with your girlfriend is the main issue you are concerned about?
Well, if that's the case there is a signifcant aspect to women's psychology that I'm sure you must be aware of. Women's ego seems to coincide with the welfare and status of their unborn children. Poverty, or the perception of a slide into poverty, does not switch on all the mechanisms of attraction in their partnering instinct.
I remember when I believed and look forward to december 21st 2012, believing that something magical was going to happen and save me from all of my problems, but now I don't even believe that.
Women will interpret this as unmanliness - a childlike helplessness, when they themselves are looking for protection and security for themselves and their children.
I used to be afraid of things like the illuminati, GMO, flouride, whether I'll make the ascension or not, and some other things like aliens and whatnot, but I'm not afraid and couldn't care less about any of that anymore.. now it boils down to my relationship with my significant other (which that situation is BEYOND complicated, I won't even bother explaining that, I'll just say that we both want to be together but something is preventing it).
Something is preventing it? - have you thought of the millions of years of conditioning where earth has been a battlefield for survival and as such women have evolved some deep instincts through failure and personal suffering as to which way their bread is best buttered?
Okay, you have discussed so many issues with your GF which worry you or have made you afraid. This may be because you see as flimsy the securities the average person clings to for assurances and you see the bigger picture. But to discuss with a woman the dangers which exist without also showing her a supreme plan for overcoming and dealing with these dangers is to play with fire with the forces of animal attraction.
Originally posted by starchild10
reply to post by OhNoItsCritical
Heavens OP - I'm guessing you are a teen as this self obsession and overly analytical approach is pretty typical. It's not a failing, it's just a 'rite of passage' that many of us go through. Things will become better as you get older. Meanwhile enjoy the moment and try to quit thinking about everything so much. As the previous poster said, some things just can't be forced. They will happen in their own time.edit on 2-4-2012 by starchild10 because: (no reason given)edit on 2-4-2012 by starchild10 because: (no reason given)