I Want To Issue a Formal Apology To a Friend. Member benedict9.

What is this? A sitcom? Im confused on so many levels. Stop bumping this thread until they tell us what happened.

reply to post by Vandettas


Here, this is what the fuss is all about:

www.abovetopsecret.com...

Enjoy. If you can manage to wade through it all...

Not that it isn't weird from the start, but when you get near to the end, that's when the religious contest starts that has resulted in this thread.

reply to post by Beamish


It wasn't a contest. That all started with me using the word "doom porn" and it was not meant to be used against anyone in particular, it was just one more video and more earthquake predictions, this time a huge one for the Norhtwest and Vancouver, just to keep people in doom mode nonstop.

And a certain individual felt he had the right to come on and chastise anyone who didn't believe what he did. Put down Love and Peace and any more buddist type beliefs of holding positive thoughts. And then that individual was rather harsh with a long term friend who assumed something about his response, that he was upset, or something along those lines.

It wasn't about two religious or spiritual thoughts battling it out, it was instead speaking up for the right to not be forced into that one line of thought as if it is the good, when its not the good, its the program. And someone thinking its their self appointed job to whip at and "chastise" others, his own word.

And he was very harsh in what he said. I never once asked for an apology on what was said to me as I roll things off and try to be more grown up about it, and pray for people and also did reach his HS. With the directive to pray, and send healing thoughts, that it was teamwork and of course nobody is perfect so we have to work on our own logs in our eyes so to speak too. But I don't take things personally, pass them through, however his comments to TMA and especially to Daphne were not nice.

The worst of it was when he called her a demon and talked about her ego being too big for its britches and for the piggy to go back into her pen. And using words that no honorable and chivalrous man would ever use with a woman. The men in my family never talked to women like this, even friends.

Also, the idea of slave pen, who is he to put himself above another? Bloodlines do that, gov does that, and yet they are really tiny tots in diapers with the real Love and Goodness in the trenches and living on the streets. They are smaller than the smallest of the humans here. The true Higher Ups go to the smallest to find the greatest.

And who was he to think he could chastise another human at all. What you supposed to do is encourage others, and help foster healing.

So, no this didn't have sides. It had someone trying to control others. There was one person at fault here.

And yet she apologized.???

Calling women piggies, or was this humans in general? Does he think he's a different species? hmmmm.....
Also, now is this something about snapping around peoples heals or any of the sheep that see freedom and make a run for it????

NO you free thinkers you, back in your slave pens, what arrogance to imagine they're equal and free!!!

I mean this just opened an enormous issue with me, and I have alot ot say to his HS now.

And this isn't about opinion, there is log that shows exactly what I said. The spin that is put on it by the others to bury the truth is what gov all the time with us. Its right there in plain sight.

Where is benedict9?? does he accept the apology???

reply to post by hanyak69


He sent me a PM from behind the scenes.

He did accept apology and issued one to me as well.

Maybe he will show up here and speak up , I don't know.

Note to add: I should have put a note in the opening post to not STAR or FLAG this post. Because this is not what it was for. But, in an emotional moment we can't think of everything. And so it is.

Originally posted by Beamish
reply to post by Vandettas

 

Here, this is what the fuss is all about:

www.abovetopsecret.com...

Enjoy. If you can manage to wade through it all...

Not that it isn't weird from the start, but when you get near to the end, that's when the religious contest starts that has resulted in this thread.

Thanks for posting the link so others know what's going on.

reply to post by Unity_99


Unity you have told the whole story in a nutshell.

Thanks again. This folks is the synopsis of it all.

But, all is forgiven by me, Unity has her own feelings about this matter.

And she's allowed to speak up. I'm glad she does so.

She was talked to in a manner in which I didn't agree with and The Magicians Apprentice and I could not stand idly by and let it happen.

This is a two year old story. About people who became close.

In my neck of the woods, apologies mean absolutely nothing and are completely meaningless words. Nobody apologize around here because what is important is being right, and the train of thought goes, if you're right one doesn't have to apologize for anything. The second thing that makes apologies meaningless around here is there is no sincerity and no real attempt to make things right by stopping the behavior that hurt people. The vast majority of people around my neck of the woods don't really care about how other people feel, for the most part, and watching people get upset is just so much entertainment.

Sad, but true.

I didn't realise ATS had a roleplay section.

This made the front page, which is kind of scary.

Don't get me wrong, to some this could be a heart snugglefuzzy inducing thread, and that's nice and all, but something that could have been said in a private PM takes away from other threads that are a little more important.

reply to post by DaphneApollo


Well its just that apology isn't about someone just patching things up but the other still doesnt admit they have hurt someone. Its not about being mean, but a learning lesson with someone's sensitivity or understanding growing out of the experience, or else it just doen't really mean anything. But oh well, prayers and sending loving energy helps too.

Gandhi: "I like your Christ, just not your Christians."



"Love sweet love, it's the only thing that there's just too little of." As the clip above shows.

Originally posted by Unity_99
reply to post by DaphneApollo

 

Well its just that apology isn't about someone just patching things up but the other still doesnt admit they have hurt someone. Its not about being mean, but a learning lesson with someone's sensitivity or understanding growing out of the experience, or else it just doen't really mean anything. But oh well, prayers and sending loving energy helps too.

Unity, I will be lavishing him with the Ghandhi treatment. Love him till it hurts, do good to him, you and I both know and I understand exactly what you're saying, trust me. It is over and finished. He's forgiven me, we've forgiven each other. And this thread can now rest in peace. all is well. Peace.

Unity99, you have chosen to bear false witness against me here by grossly distorting the merit of events to smear my name publicly. The post history shows I only made harsher comments to Daphne after heavy provocation of being deliberately falsely accused, insulted and mocked in consecutive posts--- including being publicly accused as a plagiarist under the offence of libel. DaphneApollo, you have chosen to overwhelmingly support all this false witness by Unity99 whom presented a grossly one sided order of events that mention NONE of your actions in cause-- which makes you just as guilty on equal standing for endorsing the gross omissions of events and distortions in Unity99’s statements.

My Father Redeems those who are persecuted unrighteously via any means. Your false witness is recorded (I warned you Unity99 for karmic opportunity to present both sides fairly, as opposed to your heavily lopsided bias position against me here) and you will receive your dues. I hope you enjoyed that repulsive deed and the support of those that reveled in your lies because it is going to cost you dearly on a spiritual level.

DaphneApollo, I consider the sincerity of your original post completely null and void by what you endorsed in Unity99’s statements that only served to greatly smear my character via great distortion of the facts.

ATTENTION MODS: I respectfully request that this thread be completely removed as it supports 2 members (Unity99 and DaphneApollo) own flawed position that propagates character assassination of myself mentioned in title, ATS member benedict9. I encourage you in considering such a request to go through the wordings of where I stand accused to reveal the obvious clear untruths and distortions being conveyed only to smear and discredit ruthlessly that outlines NONE of the provocations that led to my wordings against others. The context of which has been GREATLY distorted here.

I would also expect that the obvious and baseless lies in slander such as “So, no this didn't have sides. It had someone trying to control others. There was one person at fault here.” by Unity99 be reprimanded with appropriate post banning for they abuse their posting rights with utterly distorted and completely baseless (on the merit of post history record) condemnations of other members with such statements in a public forum.
I should not need to be on the receiving end of consistent lies via those with a personal character assassination agenda and a clear axe to grind as it is not the first time these members have brought forth false allegations against me. The public post record will reveal it all.

I will be taking further action on this matter to ensure that others are not given liberty to post damaging statements without consequence.

reply to post by benedict9


I've not just stated what happened and my concerns about everything that was said, but also was questioning why she felt she had to even make this thread, when you seemed to be maintaining your right still to post those comments and judge others. I am sorry if you were hurt by that, but very sorry for her feelings, and just didn't like any of that. Unless someone can understand other people's positions, then its not a true apology because its just enabling someone who will hurt someone's feelings again. And if someone has alot of sensitivity towards criticism being said, and I do understand that, and cringe at the idea of hurting someone's feelings, still its best if that sensitivity is directed towards understanding everyone's feelings involved, especially Daphne's and TMA's. Like I said, I just stay from a position of rolling off any barbs someone sends to me, and hope that they will gain enough insight to know that there isn't one slant or flavor of love or goodness that God prefers, and yes the religions are corrupted.

Anyway, that she made this thread bothered me alot.

But I don't want it to continue over and over again either, because until people can start to walk in others shoes and understand each other, its just not very meaningful.

I keep you in my prayers and if you think I'm holding onto anything in those posts, I'm passing it through and pray that God will bring understanding and healing and growth in all people, and if anything i've said is harsh to you, I'm sorry, don't wish to hurt anyone's feelings, and hopefully the words that were red flags of alarm for me, that you posted, were just some aussie type quip, and don't have deeper meanings in them.

May Understanding, Peace, Love, grow strong in everyone!

Peace!

reply to post by Unity_99

I have lodged formal complaint against you based on your postings here and if there is any justice here in fairness against your attacks on my reputation, you will be reprimanded accordingly.

reply to post by benedict9
Benedict

I have been a paralegal for 30+ years. I was married to a tax lawyer for 21 years (he passed last June from Alzheimers). I used to help my husband fight the IRS on a daily basis, mainly the rogue agents, yeah, that's right, the ones of legend, devil incarnates. I love a good rumble for a good cause. Federal court is my domain. Your prayer to the court here and above is lacking and without merit imo. Please re-read the agreement you checked when you joined ATS. You wanna rumble?

If this situation is to be considered it should be noted that in fact you are the one who should be reprimanded and my prayer to the court would be a lengthy post ban on you. You continually attacked the two aforementioned posters with a proclamation of damnation, continually calling them demons, etc. Please consider taking a break from this forum as any conflicting viewpoints to yours evidently is a problem for you.

Sincerely,

STM

reply to post by seentoomuch


Which part is "lacking"?

Wanna rumble you say??? No, I just don't appreciate a one-sided version of events pushed in the public domain against me. I guess it's a lot to ask around here, please forgive me....sheesh.

As for your credentials, good for you! However your level of discernment at the situation at large is less than impressive.

P.S--saying someone is behaving "like" a rebellious demon (my words) and is INFLUENCED by them is NOT calling them a demon. I did no such thing and now YOU propagate the same lie as Unity99 did. As someone with legal credentials, you should be paying more attention to the technicalities in wordings.

If you want to continue to place words in my mouth as others have here repeatedly, I am happy to make formal complaint against you for 'defending' such lies and liars furthermore in standing.

You continually attacked the two aforementioned posters with a proclamation of damnation

This too is another lie, I inferred that they were in spiritual DANGER by promoting false teachings. I DID NOT CONDEMN ANYBODY nor "chastise" (punish) them as stated repeatedly in lie by Unity99. Congratulations you are now performing the same functions as the others.

And people wonder why I feel compelled to take further action. The distortions are relentless here and it is simply unfair that I should be in position to 'defend' such continually simply because others do not read nor comprehend appropriately before making damaging remarks.

Here is where I think someone went insane

Let me all remind you of something called:

FREEDOM OF SPEECH~~!!!!

So calling people not worthy of speaking or anything else that has been occurring is just plain sad and pathetic.

We all have freewill and without it we are nothing, so if someone is putting down that freewill go look at yourself in the mirror.