posted on Mar, 26 2012 @ 03:25 AM
In my humble opinion, one of the main purposes of marriage is reproducing/multiplying . why we, as human, need to be multiplied? The answer is simple:
to maintain our existence in the planet. The larger number we have, the bigger chance we avoid our exticntion. I believe, with our limited scie tech
related to human reproduction, clone, we may still be exposed toward the danger of extinction.
Now, the term “marriage” here is what makes us different from let’s say animals. Animal mates, the gave birth, and they also take care their
babies in basic term as feeding and safety. But human, stand at the top of pyramid evolution, has created “marriage” a system in reproducing with
the final purpose is to create a family
In a family, woman plays a role as mother associated with caring and loving, the “tender side”while man plays role as father associated with
strength and leadership, the “solid” side. Those Ying and Yang work together creating a parenting partnership which creating family values such as
respect, love, loyalty, commitment etc. we can’t deny that our first education start at home and still family hold the key in further stages of our
Therefore I believe, which also many people believe until this very second that the ideal society comes from the harmonious smaller units that works
together (one family toward another) which only possible when they are succeeded in maintaining the family values.
Then we shall define that a good family need a man, a woman, (in term of reproduction and also fulfilling sexual needs in healthy way, mentally and
physically) bound by equal and fair commitment (marriage, either by law or religioin, it doesn matter).
I really don’t care whether a man marries another man or woman with another woman. It’s their private but what I don’t understand is what do
people expect with gay/lesbian marriage in term of society or humanity. Allow me to point out this way :
1. Gay/lesbi marriage unlike “normal” (I’m sorry if the word “normal” here sounds offending to some people, but I believe gay/lesbians, they
arent normal in term of their sexual orientation nd physiological state) marriage cant prevent human from the danger of extiction (how can u expect
them to multiple when they only have similar sexual organ)
2. You may say that they can adopt child from poor family thus helping the society but again please consider the kids physical and physiological
state later on.
If I may choose what future generation like look in order to continue our human existency, to develop higher level of human civilisation, then I will
choose that our children are raised in the best state which is in the family where they can get advantages from both sexes (their mom and dad).
Unfortunately, from where I live now, my point of view here is considered as minority.