Originally posted by MarlboroRedCowgirl
Re: The coffee and ciggerete debate.
Yes. These two substances are accepted "crutches." Although they are unhealthy, they do serve a purpose. If you want to get sober by any means necessarily, sometimes that means tackling one addiction at a time. For me, ciggeretes were around before, during, and after my time as an active addict. I am 22 years old, and I have been smoking for 5 years. Sometimes a smoke has been all there is keeping me from using, and its worth it for me. I am not a ciggerete fiend, I have never stolen or cheated for a pack of smokes. I don't have money for a pack, I do without or stick a patch on. I can only take my sobriety one day at a time. Do I have to have coffee to attend a meeting? Of course not.
These are creature comforts for the addled, not some plague affecting the addict community. There are many who smoke and drink coffee and are not addicts.
Oh i for sure have my cures or crutches! depends on how you look at it. Same with me smoker b4, during, and after. I just caught a lot of slack in meetings for still going to a bar here and there. Hey honesty got me almost stoned "thrown rocks at". I have never had withdrawal from cigarettes or alcohol. but herion is a hell and death to quit. And NA rubbed me the wrong way. AA too. they said a addict is an addict to everything. I don't believe that. I tried it all and was very picky drug addict. I'd sit and watch people do many different drugs and I'd say no. Many times people would offer me drugs if I'd snort it, I said no. I wanted it in my veins, not my nose, but that was coke and i didn't like it any other way and could do without. Anything is better than doing what you were addicted to and couldn't handle. Do what you can handle its legal and your cure, don't let anyone tell you different. I just wanted to point out these are drugs too. I think sugar's a drug, i think? but whatever. I am prescribed pills these are drugs. Aspirin and Anti-biotics are drugs but we need them to cure something else. I don't say caffeine is a crutch. you can have withdrawals from it. but if its keeping you sane. Its your cure. Everyone's is different.

