Boy, 9, Suspended from School for Sexual Harassment After Calling Teacher 'Cute', page 4
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reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 10:00 AM by soficrow
reply to post by tw0330



....my friends and i always talked about how "hot" some of the teachers, student teachers, and subs, looked. .......We were boys, we didn't know any better


It's one thing to 'talk' to each other about 'hot' teachers - quite another to come on to the teacher directly. Maybe you didn't cross the line, but either way, you apparently haven't learned the difference. Hopefully this very minor 2-day suspension will give this 9-year-old a better perspective on what constitutes respect and disrespect - and help teach him to be a better human being.


reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 10:05 AM by bluemirage5
reply to post by tw0330



The schools and the Police are now getting way out of hand.

Time for the parents to take over the schools like they used to and get back to basics. These teachers and school principals should be forced to resign. Enough is enough.


reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 10:43 AM by tw0330
Originally posted by soficrow
reply to
post by tw0330



....my friends and i always talked about how "hot" some of the teachers, student teachers, and subs, looked. .......We were boys, we didn't know any better


It's one thing to 'talk' to each other about 'hot' teachers - quite another to come on to the teacher directly. Maybe you didn't cross the line, but either way, you apparently haven't learned the difference. Hopefully this very minor 2-day suspension will give this 9-year-old a better perspective on what constitutes respect and disrespect - and help teach him to be a better human being.


Ummm how in the world has this gotten to "the boy came on to his teacher".

The boy didn't come on to anyone.


reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 11:06 AM by Praetorius
reply to post by Liquesence

Oh good lord - I think everyone's taking that quote wrong, especially when cross-referenced with the information from The Daily Mail:
'I was talking to my friend and I said Miss Taylor was cute,' Emanyea told local WSOC news...

A substitute teacher at Brookside Elementary School overheard the remark, told the principal, and then the principal suspended the boy for two days.


When we get this line:
the boy was suspended for "inappropriate behavior" after making "inappropriate statements."

...it might help for me to rephrase that: 'After making "inappropriate statements", the boy was suspended for "inappropriate behaviour"'.

The statement WAS the behaviour that got him suspended.


reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 11:54 AM by soficrow
Originally posted by tw0330
Originally posted by soficrow
reply to
post by tw0330



....my friends and i always talked about how "hot" some of the teachers, student teachers, and subs, looked. .......We were boys, we didn't know any better


It's one thing to 'talk' to each other about 'hot' teachers - quite another to come on to the teacher directly. Maybe you didn't cross the line, but either way, you apparently haven't learned the difference. Hopefully this very minor 2-day suspension will give this 9-year-old a better perspective on what constitutes respect and disrespect - and help teach him to be a better human being.


Ummm how in the world has this gotten to "the boy came on to his teacher".

The boy didn't come on to anyone.


You don't know that. As I said in my original post:


There just isn't enough information to develop any informed opinion here. But that doesn't seem to be stopping anyone else so I'll go with the flow



edit on 5/12/11 by soficrow because: (no reason given)



reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 01:38 PM by soficrow
reply to post by NightFlyer96



A 2-day suspension for hustling a teacher is NOT "criminalizing kids." Get a grip.

Better that kid learn now that some behavior is just not appropriate than to let him escalate for lack of appropriate guidance - and end up in prison for rape or some other perfectly "acceptable" behavior.




reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 07:32 PM by Aloysius the Gaul
reply to post by DragonTattooz



Ridiculous!

With 7 million or more teachers and 10's of millions of school kids, there are always going to be stupid events happening every day.

Trying to make them into a deliberate attempt to criminalise school children is as dumb as the events themselves!!



reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 10:35 PM by Liquesence
Originally posted by Praetorius
reply to
post by Liquesence

Oh good lord - I think everyone's taking that quote wrong, especially when cross-referenced with the information from The Daily Mail:
'I was talking to my friend and I said Miss Taylor was cute,' Emanyea told local WSOC news...

A substitute teacher at Brookside Elementary School overheard the remark, told the principal, and then the principal suspended the boy for two days.


When we get this line:
the boy was suspended for "inappropriate behavior" after making "inappropriate statements."

...it might help for me to rephrase that: 'After making "inappropriate statements", the boy was suspended for "inappropriate behaviour"'.

The statement WAS the behaviour that got him suspended.



Gotcha. Ok, i totally read that wrong in angry haste. Admitted.

This, however, neither speaks of the boy suspended for sexual harassment nor the issue that the article is vague.

But, speech as behavior? Uhhhh. I know that actions can be considered speech, and that speech can definitely be inappropriate, but i do not recall hearing that speech can be considered behavior.?? To be considered behavior? Maybe i am missing something (probably). I know that speech can be disruptive as well, and combined with certain types of behavior such as the method of delivery (that's an argument in itself), but speech SOLELY considered behavior--when someone just calls someone cute and is not ranting and raving? Something off there, too, something off in this entire incident.

The world is still completely gone insane. When i was a kid, i did things like that, and it was--OH NO, part of being a kid.



This country has gone bassackwards crazy, in a micro and macro level.


reply posted on 5-12-2011 @ 10:52 PM by xMozio
Yes this is exactly the kind of junk that goes around in the NC school systems. Everything you do seems like it gets documented and sent off to some government facility for trial and testing to see if you're some kind of terrorist or you're some major threat to the school system. This doesn't relate to the sexual aspect of this issue, but a perfect first-hand example of the sad excuse of a school system we have here in NC: when I was in Middle School (forsyth county school system), there was a day when i came home from school and sat down to watch some history channel. The show that was on was about Russia, nuclear power, etc. I personally thought it was extremely interesting so I came to school the next day (keep in mind i was about 12) and told a lot of friends about what i saw and how crazy it all was. So here I am in gym, and i was telling a group of friends what i saw on T.V. My teacher walked by and I guess heard me talking about it, and so he jumps to conclusion and apparently reports me to the principal and everybody. So basically I didn't think anything of it, you know "meh, it was cool whatever move on just a little topic". So I get home and my mom tells me how the police just called and they sounded like they were gonna come down to our house and confiscate our computer and search it for "files". So at first I'm like "well why on earth would they do that!?!?!" And my mom told me the school staff had a huge meeting that afternoon about me and what they thought I was involved with (basically acting as if i was some Afghani terrorist that's gonna blow up the school or some terrible crap like that). So then my cousin came down to my house and picked me up and took me on a long drive around the country trying to get answers from me like who I was involved with and such. So I told him my whole day and he basically called bull# on me!! So basically he took me to his house and kept me a lot of the night. Then the next day in school the principal took me out of class and took me to a huge private conference room and there was police everywhere and sat down and interrogated me basically. He came to the conclusion that i needed to spend the last weeks of my 6th grade year in a private room in isolation in the back of the office. So i was like whatever ill just sleep all day on the couch. So I did. Then one day I got up to go to the bathroom and was in there for a while (number 2), and when i got out they had staff like EVERYWHERE searching for me and they locked every single door in the school cause they thought I had "escaped". So basically I became a huge social outcast all due to the dickery of the school system.


Mad props to you if you read all that sorry if you think it was too off-topic but I have very strong feelings about the NC school system and I felt this was a good opportunity to tell my story.

P.S. Note that almost identical situations had happened to me twice during elementary school except they didn't go that far but they still acted like a little 8-12 year old has some kind of Jihad terrorist. And when I questioned why they were treating it so insane they just said "well you know how it is cause of 9/11". Is that a good excuse to you? I want to know your opinions about how school systems treat things these days.


reply posted on 6-12-2011 @ 08:21 AM by Praetorius
reply to post by Liquesence

Generally agreed, although I can understand why they would have called it such - probably just a catch-all they use in their disciplinary policy.

I'd say is somewhat akin to police charging people with disorderly conduct or obstruction of justice for pretty much anything that makes their job harder or more annoying than it has to be, even if there's nothing truly disorderly or obstructive about it - and I'd say this case is no less stupid.

Take care.
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