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Originally posted by jheated5
If she is manipulating people, then to what end? I mean everyone in here has responded with general concern and kindness, even if the story isn't real many people can relate and can look at the responses and know that people are here on ATS willing to give someone support no matter what their problems are..... Isn't that the most important thing we should take from our time here????
Originally posted by gabby2011
Originally posted by jheated5
If she is manipulating people, then to what end? I mean everyone in here has responded with general concern and kindness, even if the story isn't real many people can relate and can look at the responses and know that people are here on ATS willing to give someone support no matter what their problems are..... Isn't that the most important thing we should take from our time here????
maybe you didn't read all the posts..
and I don't like to fake giving support to someone who claims to be heartbroken, and is obviously not that heartbroken...
Like I said in an earlier post..I'd have a lot more respect for her..if she would have just come out and said..hey guys..looking for a new boyfriend who is into conspiracies... my last one just didn't get my interest in them at all.
Anyhoo..I sincerely wished her happiness in her future (hopefully she finds the right guy)
As far as what we are here for..well....that varies....I will give support to those I feel need it.
Give it up. Really. Just give it up. Its very sad and pathetic for you to assume what i want or what im here for. I'm not going to say im looking for a new boyfriend who is into conspiracies because i dont want a new boyfriend right now. Who are you to say and KNOW what i want in a boyfriend? Last I remember, i was here telling my story not making a list of the thing I look for in a guy.
Thanks. I actually do hope to meet someone here.. lol.. Any single ATS'ers out there ? I guess time will tell. The sad part was that he pretended to be remotely interested in what i liked in the beginning. Ends up being, all he cared about was sports and beer
My emotions didn't mean anything to him, my words, my thoughts. Everytime I started talking about stuff that interested me (UFO, Paranormal, Conspiracy, Quantum Physics, etc) , he would hurry to get off the phone or simply just nod his head.
Thank you for wishing me well, and yes, i hope that i find happiness too. Wether with an ATS member or a simple guy walking down the street. I'll be sure to start a thread that says "I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE ON ATS" if the former happens. Leave a comment if you wish. Oh, and continue to give support to those who need it. I got my support already from all my fellow ATS'ers. Peace out!
Originally posted by gabby2011
reply to post by blackmetalmist
Give it up. Really. Just give it up. Its very sad and pathetic for you to assume what i want or what im here for. I'm not going to say im looking for a new boyfriend who is into conspiracies because i dont want a new boyfriend right now. Who are you to say and KNOW what i want in a boyfriend? Last I remember, i was here telling my story not making a list of the thing I look for in a guy.
ok... can you explain this post which I will quote..
Thanks. I actually do hope to meet someone here.. lol.. Any single ATS'ers out there ? I guess time will tell. The sad part was that he pretended to be remotely interested in what i liked in the beginning. Ends up being, all he cared about was sports and beer
The above was your third post on this thread.. which is why I made the comments I did.. Not assumption..just what you wrote..so quit making me look like the bad guy here..
here's a quote from your first post
My emotions didn't mean anything to him, my words, my thoughts. Everytime I started talking about stuff that interested me (UFO, Paranormal, Conspiracy, Quantum Physics, etc) , he would hurry to get off the phone or simply just nod his head.
Now can you see clearly why I said what I did?
Thank you for wishing me well, and yes, i hope that i find happiness too. Wether with an ATS member or a simple guy walking down the street. I'll be sure to start a thread that says "I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE ON ATS" if the former happens. Leave a comment if you wish. Oh, and continue to give support to those who need it. I got my support already from all my fellow ATS'ers. Peace out!
I hope you find happiness too..but if it is someone from ATS....I wouldn't start telling my story of how it went wrong on here..because we may hear the other side of it as well.
And I will continue to give support to those I feel need it..have no worries on that.
I honestly think you are just mad..because I can see through your transparency, and called you out on it.
I'm sorry if that hurt you..edit on 22-9-2011 by gabby2011 because: (no reason given)
Lol well you hit the jack-pot of men who are interested in UFO's, paranormal, etc here on ATS. Hope you find someone who shares the same passion in your interests. Shouldn't be tooooo hard here
Originally posted by Death_Kron
reply to post by gabby2011
Gabby doesn't seem to understand that relationships fail and that people become hurt, not really sure why....
reply to post by gabby2011
oh..I do understand...I just don't don't understand how some people deal with it...and why they use it to try and gain sympathy and attention. I also understand that people only have their perspective of what the problems really were...which could be very accurate, or entirely scewed...or a combination of both. I my observation of relationships..people who are truly heartbroken don't advertise it to a bunch of strangers, and it takes a long while before they are ready to take a risk with their heart once again.
Gabby, Do not allow your expectations of others get the best of you time and time again. She is young.
My Grandmother once told me to keep my porch clean and not worry about whether or not the neighbor has hers clean. When you maintain your own porch it will keep you busy with your own affairs and not worry about others.
I only say this not to hurt you but to show you that others will hurt you time and time again if you are consistent with holding them on a pedestal with expectations.
You HAVE got to think like this..... If you are on a date with a man...he is lucky. Plain and simple. You bring this, this, and that to the table. He needs to prove himself worthy of ONE more date....can he do it? I AM WORTHY OF THE BEST so I am placing myself on a pedestal and any man that wants a chance with me will have to come to me on MY level ....waaaaay up here. You are a princess!!
With any relationship (or one that has just begun like with the OP) you can choose to walk away when your expectations are not met....you do not have to sit in the expectation bowl of shiat and wallow in it.
And by all means...if you see me around doing the same thing....remind me. Peace and love to ya!!! xoxoxo
Originally posted by gabby2011
oh..I do understand...I just don't don't understand how some people deal with it...and why they use it to try and gain sympathy and attention.
Maybe they have no one else to talk with ?
I also understand that people only have their perspective of what the problems really were...which could be very accurate, or entirely scewed...or a combination of both.
And technically you have neither so I'm not sure why you believe you can speak with such authority ?
In my observation of relationships..people who are truly heartbroken don't advertise it to a bunch of strangers, and it takes a long while before they are ready to take a risk with their heart once again.
Crap, I guess if I look at something in a different manner than you do I'm screwed ?
Maybe they have no one else to talk with ?
Originally posted by gabby2011
hmmm..if they have no one else to talk to....makes it seem like maybe those that do know them....know too much to fall for the ..poor poor pitiful me story..
whateva..(shrugs)...I've said what I felt the urge to say.... you can rationalize it whatever way you want.
Originally posted by Death_Kron
Originally posted by gabby2011
hmmm..if they have no one else to talk to....makes it seem like maybe those that do know them....know too much to fall for the ..poor poor pitiful me story..
whateva..(shrugs)...I've said what I felt the urge to say.... you can rationalize it whatever way you want.
Yep you have, and no one else is really listening any more.
Maybe you should deal with your own hurt?
Originally posted by Pantherapardus
Just let her be...stop attacking and being jealous.edit on 23-9-2011 by Pantherapardus because: (no reason given)