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A PAEDOPHILE walked free from court after a judge accepted his 13-year-old victim had led him on.
David Barnes, 24, engaged in cyber-sex with the schoolgirl and downloaded hundreds of pornographic pictures and short films - one of which showed the rape of a handcuffed five-year-old girl.
He admitted 17 charges of making indecent images and one of inciting a child to engage in sexual activity.
But when he appeared before Judge Peter Fox for sentencing at Teesside Crown Court, in the north of England, he was allowed to walk free with a suspended sentence.
Originally posted by jude11
reply to post by doobydoll
Although he is guilty and yes he should be put behind bars, 13 yr olds are quite capable of seduction.
Teen age girls are more aware of their sexuality these days and if you look around you, many are sexually active.
I don't buy the argument that a 13 yr old girl doesn't know what she is doing. She may not be aware of the consequences but many know exactly what they are doing and think it's the 'cool' thing to be sexy.
But he is a 24 yr old man and he is the one that knows the consequences more than anyone.
Do not pass GO...Do not collect 200...Go directly to jail.
And if I had my say...Both can spend a little time behind bars. If she wants to act grown up, she can pay like a grown up.
Period.
Originally posted by Fuzzy Wabbit
reply to post by jude11
Dude, we don't go around throwing kids in jail. The guy knew what he was doing was wrong and he should pay the consequences for his actions. But demonizing a 13 yr. old kid, that goes beyond the pale.
She'll learn about life's hard lessons soon enough, but we can't place her misguided actions and lack of maturity on the same level as a grown man. There's a distinct difference there.
Originally posted by Fuzzy Wabbit
reply to post by jude11
Look at just about any study in child development and you will see that a child's mind is far from reaching maturity. It's impossible to expect the same level of comprehension from a child as it is from an adult. When she is older and hopefully a bit wiser she will have to come to terms for her actions.
Originally posted by jude11
Although he is guilty and yes he should be put behind bars, 13 yr olds are quite capable of seduction.
Teen age girls are more aware of their sexuality these days and if you look around you, many are sexually active.
Originally posted by Advantage
ALl of the discussions aside concerning a 13 yr old brain functioning on the same level as a 20-something, parents not paying attention, blah blah blah.. there is NO MAN ON THE PLANET that isnt aware of the age of consent in his state, country, etc. They all know.. this one and many others dont care. If there is any question of age.. a normal functioning man would back off. We are human beings and regardless of what a person is wearing or doing, we have the ability to walk away. No man in his right mind would get that close to a 13 yr old in order to be seduced unless he was there to be seduced.
Originally posted by jude11
Originally posted by Advantage
ALl of the discussions aside concerning a 13 yr old brain functioning on the same level as a 20-something, parents not paying attention, blah blah blah.. there is NO MAN ON THE PLANET that isnt aware of the age of consent in his state, country, etc. They all know.. this one and many others dont care. If there is any question of age.. a normal functioning man would back off. We are human beings and regardless of what a person is wearing or doing, we have the ability to walk away. No man in his right mind would get that close to a 13 yr old in order to be seduced unless he was there to be seduced.
This can open an entire different line of discussion.
Up until the last 150 or so yrs, it was quite common for 13-15 year old girls to be sexually active, to be wives and mothers.
In the evolution of our species, we would not exist if babies were not brought forth by what we consider young girls but what was considered child bearing age by our ancestors. 150-30,000 yrs ago.
We could simply not wait for a girl to reach the age of 20 or so in order to have children as many would not live beyond that age anyway. That was middle age.
13-15 yr old girls often had children, ran a household, took care of both sets of parents, gathered food and helped her husband to survive as a family unit.
Now, before everyone goes off and says we are civilized now and it's no longer right to live like this, I agree. In these times it's not necessary to survive like this but I wanted to point out that young girls are not as innocent, naive or incapable as many might think.
And again I will state that this man should be castrated and hung by his thumbs. But, I will never agree that the girl was not a willing participant. In fact the post says that she was.
So, he gets punished...what does she get? Her cell phone taken away for a week?
Give me a break!
Originally posted by Advantage
The issue is the law. He broke it regardless of her participation he could have walked away. He chose not to. Ignorance or seduction is no excuse.