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Originally posted by aorAki
Talk to your School Counsellor, be honest, rather than seeking advice from strangers on a forum. While you may get some good advice here, you might well also get some bad advice.
Originally posted by NewAgeMan
reply to post by mossme89
No advice right at the moment but I would like to thank you for the allowing me, in sympathetic harmony with you in your predicament, to experience the nostalgic pangs of HS, and feel my heart beat again with the almost palpable longings of unrequited love. You're very fortunate to be suffering like this, I realize that sounds strange, but you'll know what I mean when your turning 44 looking back on it. If you can I'd suggest perhaps cutting down on and/or getting off the Zoloft - better to embrace the sorrows of youth without the depressant, which is what might be zombifying you to a degree. If only that girl realized that you are in LOVE with her, she'd be flattered I'm sure. I went through the same thing on a couple of occasions, and I chickened out as well, it was terrifying!
edit on 9-2-2011 by NewAgeMan because: edit
Originally posted by mossme89
I'm pretty lonely and i find it difficult to motivate myself to do schoolwork. After all, why should i care? I'll just get more work to replace the work i finished and be just as lonely. I've tried making friends with some luck, but being a Senior in HS is kind of depressing considering I'll lose all them next year. I can be around people, sure. It numbs the loneliness, but only just. When i'm around people i really "click" with (like friends i've made this year), it feels great and i can't get enough.
Originally posted by muzzleflash
Sounds to me like that chick is an idiot.
Don't waste your life on some shallow person like that. She will prolly cheat on you anyway if she is treating you like that merely for liking her.
Just make it a point in your mind to not like her anymore. If you think shes really hot, don't worry, you will find SO MANY hot chicks in the future. And some of them are nice and are not major ***** like the one you know.
DO NOT change your life based on her.
Just find what YOU like in life and follow that. If you are following your heart it WILL lead you to the right person.
I should know, I let a psychopathic chick ruin like 2 years of my life. I won't be making that mistake again. And I hope to God you don't have to go through that.