Well...a couple of things...
Doing the exercise is excellent. Good for you!
Keep doing it.
Dump the chick. She sounds like a pain in the ass and not worth any more time and effort.
I'm assuming you have buddies. Hang out with them. Lots. That kind of socialization is a good remedy.
Do you have a job? This might be a good time to get one if you're having a lot of time on your hands, and the extra money and exposure to people will
also be good for you. Some of the hottest chicks I've ever gotten with have been those I met on a part-time job.
To be successful with women, you have to think like a fisherman. Put lots of "hooks" in the water, don't be so eager that you scare the fish off, and
use the right "bait". That's where the extra money gets to be helpful. Also, remember that there's lots of fish in the sea just waiting for the
right guy to tickle their tuna.
Another thing that I failed to recognize when I was a younger dude is that the best opportunities for action with women is sometimes right in front
of your nose
. Old women, young women, fat ones, skinny ones, black, white, hispanic, non english-speaking...whatever. Now is the time for you to
put those hooks out there in the water. There is no reason to be choosy or shy. Really. Ask the chick down the street if she wants to play frisbee
or something else stupid but fun. Do the same with her mother. Whatever. Just get out there and get in the game.
Another possibility that guys use sometimes to help in these circumstances is to find a "freak"...just a woman that can help you work off some of that
nervous emotional energy that most guys your age have. Yes, by this I mean a hooker, whore, prostitute, escort, call girl...pick your pejorative.
Some folks are gonna call this particular contingency "crazy", but it is an option if you feel like you really need some lovin'. If you choose this
option, though, be careful.
Maybe talk with your parents, dad, older brother, uncles...see what they have to say.
edit on 9-2-2011 by MMPI2 because: