reply to post by mossme89
Life is hard ..at any age. Life is not instant gratification. If you are male ..it is particularly not instant gratification.
Not many out here are willing to "flashdance " you through lifes hurdles or difficulties. We do not deserve the choicest morsels off the table with
someone else setting up the buffet line for us.
Relationships are often just so. Not intstant gratification. If you are a male..you will suffer rejection ..over and over and over..more times than
success...get ready for this ..spiritually as well as mentally.
What has happened to you is that you are on a drug..a love drug...no different from chemical depencency. It will cloud and confuse your thinking and
The problem we have difficulty recognizing because of the numbing effects of this love drug ...is that we can often love things or people who are bad
for us. We will do anything and everything to get access to our love/drug.
It takes maturity to get over this hurdle.
You do not replace one drug with another mossme89. That is a bad trade off. You grow up and get over it.
Someone mentioned getting on with your studies. I agree...get your education ..get some experience out here in the real world. Get a job..get a place
to stay/live. When you get a place to stay or live..you will have women trying to come over and nest...move in. You will actually get tired of most of
them when you recognize what it is they are trying to do.
Become choosy about the woman in whom you decide to invest your time and monies. For these are valuable commodities in the marketplace.
Prepare for your future. There are thousands..yea....millions of women out here. Do not be so enamoured with the idea of love that you lose sight of
this simple fact.
You remind me of a male versioin of this woman to whom I just posted ...here...
Be very careful about love or what we think is love. It can often deceive us about the real conditions out here.
And get accustomed to rejection. It happens..not just in love but in other aspects of life.
You are young..nothing wrong with that most certainly. But our youth and inexperience often leads us to bad decision making from which many of us
cannot easily recover.
Agree with what Muzzleflash posts on page 1 of this thread..
Be careful out here in the mine field of love. Do not deceive yourself either about conditions out here..it can be a minefield if you are not well
grounded in disciplines and easily put on the love drug.
I am not speaking against Love here..just be very careful about what we think is love. After enough experience you learn that much of it is deceiving
ourselves about real conditions out here.
Hope this helps,