posted on Dec, 4 2010 @ 09:03 AM
Oh I feel for you. This relationship is not only bad for you mentally but might wind up being bad for you physically.
An example of this is my neice. She is 27 has two kids and was so in love with a guy that it blinded her. He took over her bank account, he followed
her everywhere, went through her phone, read her texts, didn't want her to leave the house with him knowing. At first he was non violent then it
escalated. He was drunk one night while I was over visiting her and the kids and he punched her in the jaw in front of her kids and dang near
knocked her out. I DID knock him out, took a frying pan to him but thats not the point. Even after hitting her and screaming at her kids she still
didn't get out. She said he loved him to much. The hitting got worse, but the breaking point came when he hit one of the boys. She had finally had
enough and got out. He came looking for her multipal times. Then one day he went to my sisters looking for her and still didn't find her. Later
that night he shot himself leaving a note blaming her. The note also stated that his intention had been to find her and the boys, kill them and then
kill himself. Thank god she had not only got out but she had run and run far, to the tune of two thousand miles and was in North Dakota with me.
She blames herself for his death. Thinks she could have stopped him. She is so depressed that most days she just lays around and does nothing, I get
her kids up and ready for school. That has to stop. She has started counseling which is the best thing for her and it seems to be helping.
The point of all this is that your guy may be verbal now but there is a good chance that it might get much much worse and the out come might be
horrendous. Please, please, please get out now. I know you love him but my neice loved her guy to and that didn't turn out so well. I don't want
what happened to her to happen to anyone else and will do everything in my power to help those it is happening to. So please turn off your computer,
take a trip, go to counseling, get a dog, do ANYTHING you have to do to break away from this guy. Maybe when you turn off your computer and go out in
the world, who knows prince charming might be waiting right down the road and maybe prince charming will treat you like the princess you need to be
treated like. Get out now, it might just be the best thing you have ever done.